This Saturday me and my boyfriend wentout to our local bar/ club. Well me and my friend went to the restroom and on our way back I lost her. The place was packed so I was trying to make my way back to my man and this guy grabbed me and I just pulled away and walked off. I didnt know but, my boyfriend saw it. I tried my best to play it off like "no big deal" which it wasnt but he was so mad. I swear if would not have begged him to sit down he would have killed that guy. This is not the first time this has happened. He also hates all my ex's and wants to beat their asses. Why are some men so jealous?
2007-03-05 06:22:23 · 3 answers · asked by Princess Rach 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well the incident in the bar is not as much a jealous thing as it is a protective thing, he loves you and wants you to be safe, there is nothing wrong with that. It could also be the same with your ex's, he may hate them for the way the treated you or something. If it is a jealous thing, it is just the way some men, and women, are.
2007-03-05 07:44:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, alcohol and "bars, clubs, singles joints" aren't conducive to a relationship. You really shouldn't be in those situations together anyway so it's no big surprise that he'd express his disinterest through whatever channels present themselves. You said this guy used to be very permiscuous in another post. Perhaps he's grown completely out of it and now he wants rid of that life to be with you and move on? If that's the case, he feels like your trying to hold onto a life that he wants to let go of and is subliminally expressing it through these means.
If you want a good life for your daughter and a good working relationship, you have to leave the "singles" life behind. Bars, clubs, the river, single friends, everything! If not, your chances of a working relationship go down dramatically.
2007-03-05 15:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learned it from the gals?
Never did understand that jealousy bit.
Either a woman wants to be with me or not. Either way, there is no reason to be jealous. And chains on someone do NOT enhance the relationship.
2007-03-05 15:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋