MEN ONLY..Y dont admit to cheating even when you get caught?

Question

even when we have proof..i told my guy that i know that he was sleeping with a girl during the time we was together..and that he texted her around christmas telling her that he wanted to sleep with her..he told me that he knows her but he havent spoken to her in years..i saw the text and heard the voicemail she left him..and i had my girlfriend call him and pretended to be the girl friend and act like she wanted a piece of him too..and he admit to my friend that he sent the girl a text message but still he is lying to me knowing how much that shi t hurts me..he tells me that he loves me and wants to be with me..but still i CAN NOT forget..what am i to do...

we have been together almost two years now..yes he treats me good and we ALWAYS have a wonderful time together..and the sex is great..his friends know me as wifey..but i just can not forget..and every time we have sex i think him and the other girl..

also he told me is not easy to be faithful..what the heck should i make of this statement

Answer 1

Lol sorry thats game... and your doing it to yourself. Real man don't cheat, just the facts of life. He isn't standing on anything but his own ideals and apparently cheating on his girlfriend isn't one of them. So your stuck with a cheater who gets to have his cake and eat it to because your acting like your guy might accully be in the right with this. Trust me if thats right we wouldn't have to be in relationships anymore we'd just move from person to the next as we feel. But I digress because it could also be outside presure from his friends which just makes him a tool. Also the heart can forgive but never forget, two different things, thats why cheating hurts so much in the first place. And I hate to break this to you too but making love is truly a hard thing to let go and cheat on... because you can't its not the samething. But just plain sex is something that you can easily cheat on with out much quilt at all. So I might want to be concern if I were you on exactly how much this fella loves you. Because it isn't the sex, its what you make of the sex that makes it love. And if he is laying down game about how good looking so and so is and that you not giving him enough... well you've got a cheater there, and a lair. Best thing you can do is to regain control, your in the driver seat about who holds your heart. Just remeber to damn careful who you give it to.