2007-03-05 06:16:50 · 16 answers · asked by Kissplus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Of course it's okay. My husband wore an ivory tux when we married, and all the groomsmen wore burgundy.
Point is, ANYTHING is acceptable (as long as it's legal) with re: to a wedding...it's for you and your bride so do what you two want to do. ☺
2007-03-05 06:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you don't say what color the suit that he is right now going to be wearing is I can't really help you here. What are the wedding colors? If the suit doesn't match those, or is something really out of the way then by all means she has the right to want a different color because the wedding party should all have the same or similar colors to match the theme.
2007-03-05 06:21:45 · answer #2 · answered by ambr95012 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are happy with it that's all that matters. I don't see anything wrong with doing that. However, if you for some reason prefer to be in the same colour suit as your best man tell your fiancee this as I am sure you have had no say in what she is wearing!!!
2007-03-06 12:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not strange. It's your wedding so what happens is for you. I was married 1 1/2 yrs ago. The ushers, groomsmen, and father of the groom all wore different suits. Well mainly the vests and the cumberbuns are different. My husband wore tails as well as the minature groom. Hope this helps
2007-03-05 06:25:10 · answer #4 · answered by lfnicosia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all of the male members of a wedding party should stick to a classically cut black suit, dark blue suit under some circumstances, or black tuxedo. Start playing with colors or trendy styles and twenty years from now, or less, you'll both look at the wedding photos as ask "what were we thinking?".
Good luck.
2007-03-05 06:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not strange, some guys do it. For our wedding, my husband wore a very different cut of suit from the groomsmen, but in the same colour. He wore a regular cut of coat, whereas the groomsmen wore waist-length jackets.(was the kewl style of the time, and they were young!)
2007-03-05 09:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may as well learn now, what your bride wants is what is going to happen. Do you really care enough to mention this to her because, with all of the rest of the circus that goes on surrounding a wedding, your beef is going to sound like a big fat fly in the ointment.
Say yes to everything, smile and be on time for everything. Don't offer to help, don't offer suggestions, just show up everywhere on time, smiling, and your bride will be grateful to you for this forever.
Man, you need to speak with a few older married men, happily married men, because you sound like you haven't a clue about how to be a husband.
No offense, just ask one of your trusted and happily married male family members to sit down with you for a talk. Ask all of hte married men in your family to sit down and talk. The sooner the better dude.
2007-03-05 06:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by Liligirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, that's normal. That's 'wedding ettiquette' - I read it in Brides magazine, the groom is always supposed to wear a different colour to the ushers & best man.
2007-03-05 20:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs Stevo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not strange. I've seen many weddings where the groom wore something different from the best man and groomsmen.
2007-03-05 06:22:31 · answer #9 · answered by Tallulah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is acceptable and not at all strange. But you both do need to agree on all aspects of your wedding day it is after all the most important day of both your lives. Good luck.
2007-03-05 07:07:34 · answer #10 · answered by mumof3! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋