I work as an Exec Assist to the VP I have expressed interest in a golf friend of his. My Boss has no problems saying that it's my personal life and he doesn't care. But I feel like it would be totally wrong to date someone who is a close friend of my bosses. And yet I think this man and I would have a great time together.
2007-03-05 06:12:47 · 10 answers · asked by kickinit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it worked out ... great.
If it doesnt.... your job may or may not be affected.
Depends on how much you like your job and what u are willing to risk?
2007-03-05 06:15:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be OK IF this guy agreed to keep your relationship totally between you and him and not your boss. Once that 3rd party gets thrown in, you are in for some misery. It's all about trust. I could date a friend of my bosses, but I don't see him that often because he takes care of the paperwork and I take care of the lab work. I'm married though so I dont have to worry about that. :) Good luck.
2007-03-05 06:16:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys and girls talk to their friends about their boyfriend/girlfriend. I wouldn't want my boss knowing intimate details about my life. Though not professional, your boss could also use that against you in the future. It just wouldn't be worth the risk.
2007-03-05 06:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your personal life is more important. Talk to your boss and ask him if its really OK. If you think you have a great future with this man, keep seeing him.
2007-03-05 06:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 10:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by higgs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say go for it, if it blows up it might be a little awkward but unless you do something totally unprofessional like have sex with him in the office they can't fire you just because of who you date.
2007-03-05 06:19:01 · answer #6 · answered by nightmare_gorilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If something bad ever happened, trust me i can see you loosing your job so be careful
2007-03-05 06:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot have everything in life........or you go for the guy, and eventually resign your job, or you keep your job and forget about him
2007-03-05 06:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mark N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad idea...ALWAYS date the boss!
2007-03-05 06:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your lucky it may further your career. keep on keeping on
2007-03-05 06:15:27 · answer #10 · answered by rogue chedder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋