They will criticize you with another person when you are right there? They will walk into you...they will basically not notice. What would you do then?
2007-03-05 06:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by Black 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If two people were talking **** about me and I heard it directly, I would kick the **** out of them and basically make them notice you. If people walk into you, them push your shoulder real hard and say, Excuse you!!!
2007-03-05 06:17:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would politely tell them that it bothers you. Ask them to tell you if they have some sort of problem with you. Don't do it in front of people, but definitely do it. It's about being assertive (telling people what you want) without being aggressive (hurting their feelings when you do it). And try to get a lot of friends for yourself so that no matter what anyone says about you, you always have people that truly care about you. I hope this helps.
2007-03-05 06:20:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get this from my husbands family alllll the time...they are the "rudest" people ever! I dont usually "do" anything,...I just "smile" & act like everything is just fine....then when the event is over...I bring it to my husbands attention...of course, he DOES NOT want to hear it....so I suck it up & get mad for a little bit & always act like the "BETTER" person when ever I'm around those idiots!
2007-03-05 06:18:55 · answer #3 · answered by east2west92 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make them notice me. Demand respect and speak up for myself. It is sad but, there are so many insecure people out there that need to make themselves feel big by belittling others. Stand up for yourself or you will fall for anything.
2007-03-05 06:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by Peace2All 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak up...not sure what this has to do with Singles & Dating, but if you don't like how you are being treated, then don't accept it.
2007-03-05 06:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would start by riffling through their personal property (purse or what ever)
nothing screams "hey look at me" like being nosy trust me it work
2007-03-05 06:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who said that?
2007-03-05 06:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by zed10096 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would become invisible to THEM !
2007-03-05 06:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by Israel-1 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not let yourself be walked on... Equally ignore people who do this.
2007-03-05 06:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry around Grenade launcher, that should do it
2007-03-05 06:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by THEGURU 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋