i like this girl in my college whom i proposed a few months back. she ignored sayin that she is not interested to get into any serious relationships as such..since then, i msg her often and hav tried to convince her many a times which unfortunately has not worked...v always end up with a argument..few days bac, there was a serious misunderstanding b/w her and me for which she rly scolded me very badly..after a week she gave me a call and spoke as if she didn't do it intentionally..since then i dont msg her very often..if i dont msg her for a long time she sends me a msg to chk weather i rply or not..yesterday i got a msg from her saying..LOVING WAT U GET IS COMPROMISE,GETTIN WAT U LOVE IS SUCCESS, LOVING EVEN AFTER KNOWING TAT U WONT GET IS PURE LOVE,PURE LOVE IS SOMTHING WHICH IS GR8 IN THIS WORLD..i rly didnt understand wat she exactly meant by sending this to me after such a long gap..i truly love her and i somehow want to make her mine..wat do u guys think..will this wrk?
2007-03-05 06:11:10 · 13 answers · asked by bryan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u truly love her....its pretty obvious that she feels the same way...
its time that you both confront your feelings and take the relationship to the next level...
however if she keeps refusing...her feelings must not be for real...in that case you should probably try to move on!!! If its truly meant to be it will all come together in time!
2007-03-05 06:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You smothered her....you did not give her time to breathe and to make her own decisions after she told you no...you kept trying to convince her that she should change her mind. When that didn't work you didn't leave her alone...you kept sending her text messages...the more you pushed the more you turned her off. Now that you've stopped, she's curious about what you're up to. Basically, she likes you and she might even think that your husband material...but the bad thing about you is that you seem a bit too overbearing/desperate and that can be a turn off for many women. If this is apart of your personality this can really do you harm eventually...a woman will take advantage of you, because it would be easy for you to take her back.
You can contact her if you want to...but she will eat out of your hands if you don't make it so easy for her. If you do make it easy, she'll have little to no respect for you as a man.
Good Luck.
2007-03-05 06:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by chyna0069 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to relax a little man u seem a little bit too processive and i think she noticed that let her be show her a nice side of u work on not being processive and too on top of her
what she wrote i guess she s trying to say that love has to be between 2 people who want it, getting what u want is ur own personal accomplishment, she s trying to tell she doesnt feel the same way as u feel for her and that she s tellin that u r willing to settle for half and not real love
the best thing is to have pure love, thats when someone loves u 100%
good luck and probably find someone else
or simply ignored for abit and see if shes comes around
2007-03-05 06:21:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: no. It sounds like she wants to keep you on a string. She's only interested when you're not. This might be one of those rare occassions when an ultimatum is required. Tell her straight out how you feel and what you want. If she's with it, great. If not, you'll just be casual friends or nothing at all. You will have to be the strong one here and not message her all the time.
2007-03-05 06:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by BelleDandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like she is playing games with you. She does not want anything serious with you, yet she wants to be the center of you attention. I honestly dont think she is worth your time...if you are ready to settle down and start a serious relationship, perhaps start looking else where. She does not seem like she is serious and if all you guys do is argue, then to me there are serious communication issues. If you cant maintain a good communication with her now, what makes you think it can get better if you guys get serious?? Dont waste your time trying to force something that you know will just hurt you in the end.
2007-03-05 06:24:09 · answer #5 · answered by luna_lunita14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you did it yourself because you should wait until she's ready to get that serious she feels that she'd being rushed and if your love is true than your willing to wait fo rthe other so think abou it talk to her one on one and see what she has to say if you keep rushing her into in an engagement she might just do it so you'll shut up or you might lose her. So just talk about it and don't rush her yea your in love with her but you'll also have to think about her
2007-03-05 06:28:39 · answer #6 · answered by yungn8tive1807 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, in case you do not plan on earning earnings with a football occupation (it truly is looks like you wont manage to besides), its no longer worth all this, only speedy. If it dont make funds, then it dont make experience.
2016-12-05 06:50:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"LOVING EVEN AFTER KNOWING TAT U WONT GET IS PURE LOVE" Maybe she's coming around? just keep doing what you're doing.
2007-03-05 06:16:45 · answer #8 · answered by go2bermuda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE grow a set of BA**S and be man. How is she going to have any RESPECT for you while you are begging and acting like SUPER WHIMP.
2007-03-05 06:16:08 · answer #9 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don know
move on
the train left the station
2007-03-05 06:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋