I really like this guy. I met him through mutual friends. He gave my friend his # to give to me and to call me. We talked on the phone. He saw met a party but I didn't see him so he was interested. Anyway, we met up at our mutual friends house 2 weeks for my friend's fiance birthday party. Anyway, we talked on the phone for awhile. Then the phone conversations started getting shorter and shorter where as I only spoke to him last week for less then 5 minutes. He called me. That was kinda an akward call because he asked me what time I got off and I told him then he got quiet. Like he wanted to ask me to stop by after work. Well from what my friends tell me he likes me but if that’s the case why is he so uncommunitive? I left a few message for him but no return calls. I don't blow up his phone - meaning I don't chase after anyone but I wanted to let him know that I was interested. I wish I would know something. I'm at the point where I'm like f--- it.
2007-03-05 06:07:23 · 7 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, you're right. He's just not that into you. Move on. A couple of dates and phone calls didn't obligate him to pursue you, so no big deal
2007-03-05 06:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like him or are interested in him give him time. he could be really shy. it took my fiance a while to even ask me for my number. You could always plan a 'group' outing and invite him along, so that it releaves some of the pressure. maybe ask him for a ride home after or ask him if he wants to go for dessert or drinks later... just keep talking to him, but don't call him to much (he might feel pressured and back off- plus he might already have friends pressuring him to ask you out too..)
2007-03-05 14:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by stephanie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD MOVE ON , YOU KNOW WHY? THE MAN LACKS COMMUNICATION SKILLS OR MAYBE HAS OTHER WOMEN ON THE SIDE ..TRUST ME , SOMETHING OR SOMEONE IS KEEPING HIM OCCUPIED
MY ADVICE , FIND A REAL MAN , IF YOU LEFT HIM MESSAGES AND HE DOESN'T RETURN THE CALLS , THE MAN DOES NOT SOUND VERY MUCH INTERESTED ....ALSO HE SOUNDS LIKE HE WANTS A "BOOTY CALL" SERIOUS MOVE ON AND YOU WILL NOT BE SORRY ..GOD BLESS YOU AND GOOD LUCK, MEN WHO WANTS YOU IN A SPARE OF THE MOMENT DEFINITELY WANTS A "BOOTY CALL" .."PEACE OUT"
2007-03-05 14:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by Swm 39 4 Younger Swf Forever 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I wouldn't waste any more time on him. If he is really intereseted he needs to communicate that. Move on, but if he decides that he knows how to act, maybe consider giving him another chance if you really are still interested.
2007-03-05 14:16:59 · answer #4 · answered by deejay30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u r not sending him the right message. from what i can tell, it seems like he does not know if u are interested or not. i say since u know he is into you and you like him. just tell him how you feel
2007-03-05 14:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by braille 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should move on because there are a lot more boys to be friends with.
2007-03-05 14:12:55 · answer #6 · answered by Heidi T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He's either not interested anymore, or he's playing games. Either way, he's not good enough for you.
2007-03-13 11:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋