How do you tell someone that you know is somewhat sensitive anyway that the lip color they are using doesn't work for them. Or should I just keep my mouth shut?
2007-03-05 05:21:53 · 21 answers · asked by A B 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I don't think you should say anthing. Frankly it is her lips, her make-up and none of your business. Have you ever considered that she might just be happy with how it looks?
Honestly I do see your point - because I have a friend who still outlines her lips with something really dark and then colors the inner portion - it looks like a stripper.....but isn't it her right to look any way she wants???
2007-03-05 05:41:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship. If she's a relative stranger, mind your business. If this is someone you know and about whom you care (I assume you do because you asked) then you should say something -- just be cool about it. Most importantly, if you want positive behavior, use positive reinforcement. Depending on how much effort you're will to expend, I would recommend the following: Get a sample of the lip color (or buy one for $1 at a drug store) that you think you would look really great on her. The next time you see her, comment on how great her hair and/or eye color is - whatever it is that leads you to believe that her lipstick is just not suiting her - but there's something missing. Think about it for a minute and then say, "I've got it!" and pull out your sample saying that you bought for yourself but never used it, hold it up to her like you're confirming your suspicions. Tell her to put it on just to satisfy your curiousity. When she does and it looks good, RAVE and let her revel in the new color. That's when you could say, "You know that color really brings out your ____". If she likes it, everybody is happy and no one gets hurt. Voila! Instant lipstick change. If you don't want to spend any money, find a beauty magazine with some really great lipstick ads and show her. Use the same approach as you would have if you had the sample. Be casual, be complimentary, and be cool and everything should work out. I hope this helps. Good Luck!
2007-03-05 05:56:15 · answer #2 · answered by ladylee1230 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's someone close to you, you can tell them. But if they are a person you don't even know, then yes, don't say anything.
Now if the lipstick was outside of the lips (by mistake) or some such lil accidental thing that could make the person feel embarrassed then you could tell them....
but this situation doesn't qualify.
2007-03-05 06:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's an easy one.
Find a color that DOES fit her best, bring it with you when you see her, and just say, "hey, have you seen this color yet? I think it would really accent your lips"
Theres a lot worse problems then lip color. If that doesn't work, then just leave it alone, let her wear whatever color she wants
2007-03-05 05:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by danksprite420 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can tell them the truth... That you don't care for it. But only if they ask first.
It is not the same thing as a booger hanging out of her nose where not telling her would be cruel. Lipstick, clothing and hairstyle is a matter of preference.
If people are making fun of her behind her back... Chances are she knows. Most people are neither subtle or respectful of others now days...
2007-03-05 05:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know them well enough to ask them over to your home sometime...just for a little get together let's say....once there and casual talk is done..suggest that "lets try some new make-up ideas"....then go from there.....a diff. color of lip color in experimentation..and say //// you know what...that really looks great on you....why don't you try that color for a while...You know the routine...flatter...flatter...flatter...but only if it does. Good Luck
2007-03-05 05:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull them aside (no one but you and them) when they're in a good mood. Compliment them and suggest something like, this color will bring your lips out more . I dont know that sounds a bit off but If your good friends with them say it. If not back off.
2007-03-05 06:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by Tae's Wifey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps give her a present for a special occasion in the form of lipstick/gloss, in the color you think would suit her better. This is a very tactful way of doing it and she'd be delighted at such thoughtfulness (for the gift) and practicality (something she can use).
2007-03-05 05:27:56 · answer #8 · answered by JADE 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't say anything. My roomie wears foundation on her face that doesn't match her skin tone. In my opinion, its too orange and doesn't look natural. I have wanted to say something for years, but just keep my mouth shut. I guess I just don't want to hurt her feelings even though it looks awful in my opinion.
2007-03-05 06:38:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends- Friend or casual?
If friend tell in nice way over same topic of make up comes up. And if casual, then wait until right timing. If feel very strongly about this mater.
2007-03-05 05:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋