love in early teens..?

Question

does any1 think its actually possible to fallin love in the early teens?

Answer 1

Yes!

Answer 2

Of course it is and even earlier. When I was at infant school and only about six or seven, the little girl who played Mary alongside me as Joseph in the Christmas tableau, came up to me one day in the playgound and asked me to be her sweetheart. I can picture it clearly now, as though it were yesterday.
At first I was confused and wondered what she meant, but after a while I got to really like the idea. We would hold hands when lining up in the playground but I was so shy at that age that little else happened and I found it hard to talk to her. Yet I grew to love her deeply and I was told she loved me, even after we had gone to separate Junior schools. Sadly I never had conatct with her again but the experience was something I will never forget.
In your teens you are more aware and more able to form relationships although your social skills are still developing. The important thing is to get to know the person so that it is the person you are liking, not just how you think they are from what you see. Then seek an opportunity to tell him that you like him, but beware, he may not be ready for such an advance and could find it embarrassing, so you'll need to help him through it. If he sees that you are sincere and not just playing with his feelings, he should be flattered, and whether he likes you back or not he will always remember you. You may feel rejected and that's painful, but both of you will learn how to deal with a similar situation better in future. That's how life is.
We all need love and it is good to give and to receive it. Nothing is more natural at any age but it mustn't be treated lightly, as it's people's feelings we are dealing with.
So don't be embarrassed yourself or too hesistant. You could be on the verge of sharing something precious with another human being. Just remember, we all have choices and you must leave him room to say yes or no. I hope boys will treat you in the same way. To force yourself on anyone is always wrong. You wouldn't want it to happen to you. But not to make the offer could result in both you and the other party missing something wonderful.

Answer 3

It feels like love because you feel such an overwhelming feeling for a person that the only way you can describe it is love.... there just isn't another word that works. However, it is not a lasting kind of love at your age. So even though you want to give in to that wonderful feeling, just know the odds are that the relationship will end at some point. Practically never does a teen relationship end up in marriage. So, don't wear your heart on your sleeve. Even though you want to totally give in to that wonderful feeling, keep thinking, this will not last so I don't want to give him/her anything that will make me vunerable later so that when you do break up, you won't feel like they have ripped your heart out. It is easier to say than do though.... good luck.

Answer 4

As a teen it is hard to distinguish between (just) strong feelings for a person or love.
I thought I was in love at the age of 15, but then developed feelings for another girl. I think it is hard to fall in love with someone during adolescence, however over time the feelings can mature to be loving

Answer 5

I honestly do not know.
I think that in your early teens, there is still so much you need to figure out about yourself, you shouldn't worry about falling in love. Love is an amazing thing, and it shouldn't be taken lightly.

I didn't truely fall in love until I was almost 24. I thought I had been in love in high school, but I know it was just an infatuation, or love for a friend, not romantic love.

Answer 6

I fell in love with a boy when I was 14. We were together until we were 19. He was my first (we waited until we were 16) and I am so glad it was with someone I loved so much.

That was 20 years ago but I still sometimes dream of him and I am grateful to him for all the good times we had.

My parents also met when they were 14 and they are still together after too many years to count.

So yes its possible but those who make it stay are rare.

Answer 7

Lol confident i be attentive to its demanding for me. And im 14! aha even i think of if I actual have a boyfriend. I shield them lots and prefer to be around them yet a teenager cant be in love if basically going out for some weeks. It takes like a year or 7 months to be in love

Answer 8

Some people are lucky enough to find 'the one' right next door. Others spend years travelling the world just to find that special someone.
My landlady was 13 when she met her husband. They went to school together and he was a couple of years older than her. They got married when she was 27.
I think you can meet the one at any age, it just takes maturity to acknowledge that you are in love with them.

Answer 9

i think that u can fall in love in ur early teens its just how much respect u give ur patner and how much they give back a m8 of mine fell in love with a guy at the age of 13 and now she is 20 and have one kid and have never fought , so yes i do think its possible to fall in love in early teens

Answer 10

Yes. I was 14 when I first fell in love. Obviously it wasn't the most mature love, but it was very real to me. Most people experience a number of loves before they find the "right one". You learn and grow from each one. Your first love is a very monumental part of life.

Answer 11

Yes i do believe you can fall in love in your early teens. Love is wonderful love is beautiful love has no age no colour nor creed. X