My gf of 3 years broke up a couple weeks ago. She wasnt treating me good at all and i had enuff. Well i met a great girl a week later and hung out with her. I really like her. My problem is my ex says she is going to change and she was really hurt when i told her about this other girl. I told her that i wasnt sure if i wanted to be with her and she cried all day, no joke. She broke stuff in her apt. too. Im not sure if i should end it completly with her or dump the new girl. I can only choose one and i really need help on deciding which one. The only thing i dont like about the new girl is that she talks alot but her sex is absolutely amazing. Much beter then the ex. I didnt feel much when haveing sex with my ex. Please help!!
2007-03-05 05:08:47 · 4 answers · asked by john 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eric, Eric, Eric, based on your profile, it seams that you yourself have intelegent answeres for other people, if you had someone else ask the same question, how would you answere them? I my self understand life in general due to my life experiences and what I have to say to you is to be true to youreself and open your heart, what is it tellling you? I know you truley know the answere to that question and should stick with it, don't doubt yourself the pleasures of life and no one but your parents have the right to change who you are.
3 years is a long time to build up resentment, dating is designed for the soul purpose of getting to know how someone is and to decide if this is the person you want to spend your non-refundable time with on a day-to-day basis. There is only honor in letting someone know that they are not the right person for you and no honor in living a superficial "relationship"(LIE'S).
Talking is actually a great sign of being in a confort zone. She feels confortable and doesn't mind sharing her feelilngs with you. If she wasn't talking to you than that would be a sign to get out. Stick it out with this new girl and give it a chance. Just don't wait too long to let her know she's not the one you want to share your life with, but would love her as a friend. Your ex-girlfriend does not have to be a thing of the past exspecially when you both gave so much of you're time to each other, she has to know that you both tried and would be better off finding someone more compatible. That is honorable (leaving on good terms).
Remember, check your heart and respect yourself. One more word of advice, "He that lies down with dogs, will rise up with fleas".
Sincerely,
SuperDave
2007-03-05 05:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by SuperDave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that you have said it your self already. First you said that she wasn't treating you well. If you like this new girl move on with her. As far as talking alot, You did say that you had just met recently so maybe she is trying to get to know you better. If ex girl can't handle your decision, so what. You need to have someone in your life that you are compatible with in all aspects. I realize that you had a long relationship with your ex. And that maybe hard to get over. But I really thing you should give yourself the opportunity to have a happy life.
2007-03-05 05:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex should not be the reason to end or further a relationship, it makes you look selfish and shallow. If you broke things off with the ex due to her not treating you good then why continue the relationship? You can't change a person and why take the chance to be treated bad again. You should've waited before you pursued another relationship because as I see it you weren't ready.
2007-03-05 05:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-17 08:03:29 · answer #4 · answered by trinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋