He was the one who broke up a month ago because he didn't love me "this way" anymore. Since then, we've remained best friends, exactly like before our relationship (maybe even closer)
Today, we spent the afternoon together at his place, just the two of us. Then, he walked me home. I don't know what I was thinking but I ran after him, caught him up and my brain stopped working.
I've never been at ease when it comes to feelings and stuff. I told him "You already know what I want to say. I'm still, you know" When I got back home, I called him and expected to find his answerphone but I found him instead..
I told him to shup up and said that I didn't expect anything from him but his friendship, that I still love him and that I want him to be happy. He didn't say a word. I hung up and turned off my phone..
After our break up, we went back to good old friendship right away. Now, I'm afraid I've messed up. Any advice ?
2007-03-05 05:01:46 · 6 answers · asked by jelii_chocolate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't turn your phone off. listen to what he has to say. who knows? maybe he still has feelings for you... don't act so childish and TALK TO HIM!!!
2007-03-05 05:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by sea_star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you messed it up because you confused him a big time. Right now you are not sure what you really want. Why don't you list questions to yourself and answer them then read them and it might help you to think about what it really important to you or is it worth to you. I will give you some examples, You love him? He makes you happy? He treats you very well? ETC ETC ETC. You can't confuse someone if you want to. Now you have to clean it up. First you have to think about what you want then dicsus with him first if he felt in the same way with you. Good luck.
2007-03-05 05:07:52 · answer #2 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not messed up--telling him how you feel was not wrong. For all you know he might feel the same--so don't turn your phone off. If he feels the same give him a chance to say so.
2007-03-05 05:12:46 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you at the instant are not any further courting your ex, so i will comprehend the shifting on element, yet I additionally get the place you're coming from. They the two could have stumbled on one yet another, it extremely is great, yet in spite of the actuality that this is healthful for the two certainly one of them to have in simple terms moved on with their lives your chum broke a rule interior the infamous chum code. by no potential flow out with a pal's ex with out stated chum's own and direct consent. Ever. regardless of if the chum provides permission, you're able to desire to make actually specific and communicate it out jointly till now making a flow, as situations like this could upward thrust up in case you do not. It does not sound like this surpassed off between you 2, so as a effect, deeply harm emotions have befell and additionally you sense like the two certainly one of your relationships have been severely broken and might by no potential completely be repaired because of fact of that broken believe. See what happens whilst miscommunication is provided in? it somewhat is why it somewhat is often sturdy to be easy. communicate up with the two certainly one of them relating to the way you sense and clarify how this surpassed off and your suggestions on why those emotions got here up. this is nicely worth it, as the two your terrific chum and your previous flame are significant, and additionally you will by no potential forget approximately them or the historic past you have with them. If it does not artwork out, forgive them, yet discover some new people to be close with who you would be waiting to have fun with and believe to know your emotions with out breaking your heart. this is extremely available; I promise! sturdy success, hun, x
2016-10-17 08:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by trinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby seee....uve messed it up a bit but whatever u've done is not even bad...u did it for his happiness coz he doesn't love u and u cant force him to really love ya!!
sooo it's ok!
2007-03-05 05:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Nat$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to pray to god and ask him to forgive you and talk to a paster! it might be heard but later you will feel much better about your self
2007-03-05 05:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by horse123bean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋