I meet a man on this particulor page and I told him that I was an woman of color, was black as well as a woman of the not so small size. before that he was talking with me then he just stoped talking to me. I have not heard from him in about three days. I did not run when he said he was blond, blue eyed, and a man of the mountains.so why is the truth for some men so heard all women are not a size 0 to 6 and comein the purky statious all the time.
2007-03-05 04:59:58 · 5 answers · asked by Sonya K 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some men think that all women should be one size and stick skinny, but the truth is that it is not the way it works, you say you are not a 6 and that is fine as long as you are happy with your body then whoever you are dating should as well , it is not about who has the best body or can look the prettiest. That is running the stakes to high. If can not accept you for who you are then it is obvious that you don't need him and need anything to do with him, a real man does not treat a woman like that he treats her with respect, loyalty, sees her for who she is and instead of what she is not. You have to make the decision what you do, and make sure you are comfortable with that decision.
2007-03-05 05:11:24 · answer #1 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about this sweetie but you won't be hearing from him anytime soon so you best forget it. I understand how you feel cos I hate those skinny b-i-t-c-hes too. But that's what men want (at least the kind of men you described...blond blue-eyed does not sound bad at all!!!) so we just have to deal with it and find someone who's not afraid of real women. Most men are pretty boys and are more in love with themselves than anyone else...and if they do decide to grace us with their presence and pick a mate, the mate is there simply to enhance his image of a perfect man so obviously he's not going to date anyone who's not tall, skinny, big-boobed, blue-eyed blonde.
But look on the bright side...he obviously wasn't worth your time cos he has no idea what it means to be with a real gal...but there are men who would kill for a good, proper woman and you will find one sooner or later. just don't give up!
2007-03-05 13:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are jerks.
I've found a lot of plus sized women are both attractive, can be very sexy, and have great personalities. And black women are just plain hot. I've dated a few black, plus size women. One very seriously.
2007-03-05 13:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by Radagast97 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why you are so interested in a man that is not interested in you just let him go and don't worry there is a lot of people out there who are not Coward and want t hear the truth ....
2007-03-05 13:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was not the right guy for you.......ok ....be strong
2007-03-05 13:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by William E A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋