The love of my life got killed almost 4 months ago. I'm still crying every day I can't go on with my life the way he wanted me to. I don't know what to do , I miss him so much......
2007-03-05 04:50:50 · 9 answers · asked by Blair26 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
aw sorry to hear that hun, grief takes a long time to get over, just give yourself time
try talking to a family member or a friend
think someone should be keeping an eyes on you to make sure you dont do anything silly
2007-03-05 04:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has only been four months so of course you're still going to feel like the bottom just fell out. This was the love of your life so it is justified but you should find someone to talk to about all of this. Keeping it to yourself will not help. Also, pay proper respect to his memory by getting on with life. I'm sure it is what he would want you to do.
2007-03-05 05:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Kitty knows it all 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so so sorry for you, you do know how bad I feel right now about you........I have two children, and I know it will be very difficult for me to live without any of them.........
Nevertheless, you have to put yourself together. Take all the time you need, no rush........I think you can start by visiting your baby at the cemetery very frequently, daily if you want, and grieve as much as you need, nothing wrong with that..........eventually your mind will accept the true, and YOU ARE GOING TO KEEP ON with your life....I know that for sure
2007-03-05 05:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mark N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's alright to grieve. You should actually. Talk to other people though about how you feel. Try getting your life back to as normal as possible but alway remember him.. not the fact that he has passes but that he gave you happiness and even with him gone he still wants you to be happy. So cheer up, hold your head high, talk to other loved ones and friends and alway remeber him.
I hope everything all works out.
God Bless.
2007-03-05 05:00:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot even begin to say how sorry I am for you, and that I hope all of this brokenness will mend. We never know when our last day will be, our final moment, one last breath. I do know this, than only God can mend the brokenness inside. He is the God of all comfort, and if you call on His name through His son Jesus Christ, He will hear you and lift you up. God wants to take away your pain, and He will if you let Him. If you want to know more about this, then give me a shout, I will be more than happy to introduce you to Him, and trust me, He will make everything alright.
2007-03-05 05:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww im soo sry...try to get therapy or talk to someone about ur feelings and go out more..dnt jus stay home and think about him all the time..he wouldn't want u to be like this, he would want you to enjoy life and not cry over him...he's in a better place so u shouldnt wry or anythin
gud luck
2007-03-05 04:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear that. It seems that God takes the best of the best. I am sure he was a great man and I am giving this man a moment of silent................. God bless the both of you.
2007-03-05 06:56:58 · answer #7 · answered by Bandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go out and keep your minds in something else so it will not hurt you more, start dating ASAP.
2007-03-05 04:56:20 · answer #8 · answered by PR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can help. Email me and we'll talk
2007-03-05 04:55:35 · answer #9 · answered by cj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋