he loves me but won't say if he is leaving...he needs his space because he doesn't know what he wants...do I sit here and wait for him to come home from work?
2007-03-05 04:49:03 · 8 answers · asked by Jody H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look girl, You can not control what it is he is going to do, all you can do is either believe him when he says he loves you or don't.I know it is hard to love someone that isn't sure what they want.All you can do is decide whats best for you.If you feel like you can not take anymore pain from this then you need to let him go and take the time to get over him.You will find in a few weeks that you are doing much better and o-k with the idea of not being with him.Time heals wounds and if you just sit and wait for him to make up his mind you may be putting your self through a pain that keeps coming back.be strong and give him a time to figure it out and stick to it.If he can not figure himself out by then,than you need to let it go.
Trust me, there is someone else out there for you that will be sure and love you with all of their heart.Not just some of it.
Good Luck!
2007-03-05 04:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. take charge of the situation as much as possible. Let him know straight out how you feel. Then tell him he needs to be up front right now and tell you how he feels. If he can't do that take it as a sign. (a bad sign) and tell him if he isn't sure then he should leave until he is. I wouldn't want to leave him so much power and I wouldn't want to wait just in case he decided I was worth it.
2007-03-05 12:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its pointless for you to sit down and wait for him... Stand up, start your life and do something about your life that worth to running than hold your life for him come back to fill it up for you, its wrong. If he needs a space, he must give you the good reason for you to accept it then you will understand and running your life. If you don't know why he need a space, then He hides something from you. You dont want him to confuse you a bit if he isnt sure abt himself. It will cause yourself down.
2007-03-05 12:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's up to u on how much u reall love him...but the average chick would say take care and move on b/c she has put her all into the relationship and doesn't want to waist anymore time...if he doesn't know what he wants then how does he know he loves you? i hate when guys pull that one!...sometimes i think they say that b/c they get tired of the relationship and they use that as the excuse...i wouldn't sit home and wait for him...go do ur thing...he allready told u he wants his space...
2007-03-05 12:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by jojo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did not see the first part...but if he is not your husband change the locks on the doors and tell him maybe he can start figuring it out.
Actually, I think you are both too immature to be in whatever kind of relationship you in. He's does not know what they heck he is doing and you are online asking advice from people with an average age of 16.
2007-03-05 12:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on how YOU feel; do you love him? If so give him his space; If he truly loves you he will come back to you. don't let the best of your imagination or friends get to you either, do what you feel is best in your heart; Take your problems and issues to God and he will help you always -you just need to have faith in his power-through him all things are possible
2007-03-05 12:55:45 · answer #6 · answered by Ankippia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen if he needs his space let him now he has all the time in the world but that doesnt mean you have to sit there killing yourself cause of his feelings. meanwhile get out there and get another date. and in case you do wanna sit around cause he says it wont be to long or sometjing make sure he makes up his mind and doesnt have 2nd thoughts
2007-03-05 12:56:23 · answer #7 · answered by alwayzsmilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go do wat u gotta do..u shouldnt have to wait around fo anyone
2007-03-05 12:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋