If you look at my previous ? u will see that my ex and I have been broken up for 1 year + 2 months and we talk every 2-3 weeks and then don't talk..We used to sleep together but I stopped that around 3 months ago cuz I realized he was for sure using me...Either way this is my question! Last nite he text me asking if I wanted to come over (keep in mind we havent talked for 2 weeks) he didnt even have the audacity to CALL ME! :( I did something different this time, I DIDNT RESPOND. Normally i would text or call and say im coming right over becuse i DO still love him... But what should i do? Its hard to stay away from him and not respond...Should I change my phone #? I just wish he would call me if he wants to hang out...texting is just so impersonable...WHAT DO I DO? WHAT DO I THINK?
2007-03-05 04:46:58 · 8 answers · asked by pigsrule25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly.. i have a brother so i know what guys do .. they are all assholes!!!.. hes probably talking to some other chick who does not want to give it up to him yet.. so he knows that your still in love with him and you will do anything for him so hes taking advantage.. anyways,, what you have to do is prove to him that you dont love him ( as much as u know u really do you have to get over it sweety ) if he texts you again you tell him your out .. or your too bust .. make it seem as if your too busy for him and your not even thinking of him anymore.. he will soon get the point..
(maybe at first he may be a little jealous.. maybe,,)
2007-03-05 05:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont change the phone number. You are doing the RIGHT thing by not responding. watch him get obsessed and send you 100 msgs now !! i say dont change the number bcuz u will miss the part of watching him fall all over you - which is what he deservs for treating you like a prostitute!! then it will be easy to move on knowing u can have him on the drop of a dime. good luck !! u go girl. you have officially TUREND THE TABLES!! ENJOY !
2007-03-05 12:51:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know why you got a divorse but you need to go on with your life. if you want him back tell him. If you dont then go out and date find a new man and leave him alone. That would mean changing your number. Enjoy life dont just wait for something to happen because men dont care.
2007-03-05 12:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by short_stuff_406 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through your situation before...but I did what I had to do....my ex and i broke but i still loved him and i did everything he told me... girl...you need to ignore the *****...show him that you have moved on and that you found someone that treats the way you want to be treated...he just want you when he has no one else to ****....move on....you can do better then that....
2007-03-05 12:52:39 · answer #4 · answered by sHy_gUrL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I give you a standing ovation for NOT responding to his text. GOOD FOR YOU! Now, do it again. And again. He will get the message that YOU are no fool, and that you won't allow him to USE YOU. Since he has no respect for you, you will have to teach him that he has to or he doesn't get you---even for one night. Respect yourself, and others will too.
2007-03-05 12:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
txt him and say if u need me jus call...or say u dnt have txt msg on ur phone anymore so he has to call u whenever he wants to chill or something
2007-03-05 12:53:32 · answer #6 · answered by 123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stopped reading the details to your question after the first sentence.....whatever your issue is, it has been over a year....MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 12:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds that at this point he only wants to have sex with you, he is not in love.
2007-03-05 12:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Mark N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋