can god have it out for someone?

Question

me and my husband have been trying to get pregnant for the last 9 months and have had no luck so far.but now EVERYONE that i know is getting pregnant,and i just feel like god has it out for me,its just so discouraging.i mean theres people that i know that will treat their kids like crap and i cant provide for them and they get pregnant.it just really sucks.what have i done to not deserve a child. me and my husbands are doing everything that we can think of.

Answer 1

First thing you can do is quit blaming God and get your heart right. Do you put God first in your life? Do you pray to Him every night to bless you with a child? Does your husband pray every night? Children are a gift from God. Luck has nothing to do with children. Are there any occult activity in your life or in your family history? Sorcery? Witchcraft? Horoscopes? Is there pornography or evil of any kind in your home? You need to get this out of your home and denounce any involvement and ask God for forgiveness. Let no evil thing come before your eyes. If I wanted a child as bad as you want one, I would read the entire Book of Revelation because Jesus promises a blessing just for reading that Book of the Bible. Ask God to forgive you for saying such ugly things about the people that you said would not take good care of their children. You are becoming bitter and bitterness will make you physically ill. If you hold a grudge against anyone for this very reason God would not answer your prayers. Hating someone is the same as killing. Who rejected you? I don't mean to sound mean or gruff, but I can tell from your words that you are a bitter young woman and your thinking is wrong. Start forgiving people and if you don't know who you could have offended or who offended you, then ask God to reveal to you what needs to be done so that you can be blessed with a child. Keep asking God until He reveals it to you. Don't stop praying and asking God until He gives you a child. It will happen and it will happen sooner than you think.

Answer 2

Book, "The Good News about Sex & Marriage", By Christopher West:

"REPRODUCTIVE TECHNOLOGIES

Infertility is a real problem, one that has skyrocketed in the last thirty years in developed countries. In response, and entire, ever expanding, and little regulated “reproductive technologies industry” has emerged. While the desire to overcome infertility is certainly legitimate, there are still important moral considerations to take into account.

As good as the desire for children is in itself, it doesn’t justify any and every means of “getting” a child. For example, kidnapping another person’s baby is wrong no matter how desperately a couple want children. So also, as the Church teaches, is manufacturing children through technological procedures. In both cases, we’re dealing with a ‘good end’ (the desire for children) but a ‘bad means’.

The pain and even anguish of infertile couples mustn’t be dismissed. But much more is at stake in the laboratory generation of human life than is first apparent. The Church’s teaching against certain reproductive technologies raises many pressing questions and objections. Before I address them, I’d suggest giving some serious thought both to the following seven questions and to the implications of your answers:

Are we the masters of human life?

Is a child a gift from God?

Can a gift be demanded?

Do couples have a right to children at any cost?

Do couples have a “right” to children at all?

Are we free to determine what is good and evil?

Are God’s commandments meant to bring us happiness or keep us from it?"

Answer 3

If you are a Christian then yes, God will take care of those who wronged you......that is what I was always and still believe that.............Read the book , "Facing your Giants" by Max Lucado and you will understand

You could be infertile for a reason at this time in your life, perhaps God has more waiting for you, twins or a child needs a home. Just pray to God to help you and hand it all over to God.............Let Go and Let God

Answer 4

Absolutely not. James 1:13 says "when under trial let no one say: 'I am being tried by God.' For with evil things God cannot be tried nor does he himself try anyone."

all the best in your efforts to have a child. You really haven't been trying for all that long. Don't give up hope.

Answer 5

I recommend that you don't attribute every incident that doesn't turn out the way you want to being the malicious work of God. Believe it or not, there very well may be another explanation.

Go to a fertility clinic. Modern science allows us to correct all of God's horrible mistakes.

Honestly though, don't have sex, man. It leads to kissing and pretty soon you have to start talking to them.

Answer 6

God lead me through some real bad stuff, not that he wanted me to suffer, just that that was the only way he knew for me to change for the better. It gave me knowledge and understanding going through them life experiences, it gave me a wider view to see the whole picture, and what seemingly felt like punishment was teaching, learning, and helping me to be a better person that God knew I was.

Be patient some more, and pray more, heart felt prayers. God knows what he is doing, even though we don't always see from his view. Perhaps he has a special time for this to happen for you:) Perhaps he wants you to move closer to him.

Answer 7

quit trying so hard. once you get so preoccupied with getting pregnant, your body goes through a kind of shut down stage because you are so stressed about it. once you quit trying, it happens naturally. don't worry about a spiritual reason for not getting pregnant. it could be more of a medical reason. see a doctor, not a priest about it. my ex sister in law is the same way. she couldn't get pregnant and would be the best mother. she became a foster mother to a beautiful interacial baby boy ( my exes family is very racist). needless to say, they are in the process of adopting him and the family has changed their tune. there is a reason for everything!

Answer 8

In a sort of way He can. He made Ramsey's heart hard and against the Jews so that He could have all the glory. But I think in your case you may want to see a doctor to see if anything is wrong.

Don't get frustrated. :)

Answer 9

I wish you well, but you seem to be looking at God as an entity who is here to serve you and make your life better.

You seem frustrated that the creator of the universe isn't doing a satisfactory job of meeting your expectations.

We are here to serve God.

Answer 10

Honey first off I am sorry...I agree..people have children that don't deserve them. Try to calm down and think different thoughts...God is NOT doing this to you...that is a lie From hell.

Read the bible...the bible has another word....it if LIFE to those who find it....read it...hey...what can it hurt.