ok, we have almost been going out a month now, and iv knowen her for years. She thinks im really funny and a super nice guy. Shes nice and i like her a lot but...
latly, we have just started running out of things to talk about. I normally have to jump into someone easles conversation and joke around to even get one going with her. And im not to worried about it just being me cause she is running out of things to talk to me about too.
the problem is we like eachother a lot and like being around eachother but it just gets awkward when theres nothing to say.
anyone help me about this?
2007-03-05 03:33:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont no
2007-03-05 03:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by -CEMIX- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought about talking what is happening in the news. It does sound like as a relationship it doesn't have far to go.
I have been married for 18 years and I have been having the same problem for the last 5 years. I know everything about my wife, but for you after 1 month you have problems.
Maybe she will be a good friend and not much more.
2007-03-05 11:46:17 · answer #2 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its OK to be silent i have been with bf for over a year and sometimes we get silent but that's OK its more awkward to pick and pick to find something to talk about that's how we use to be we did not like each other less sometimes you just have nothing to say don't call allot in a day so by the time you talk you can tell her all the stuff you did said or 300 pound women in spandex hahahah
2007-03-05 11:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by dianashay 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe your not as close as you thought you were. usually you do not run out of things to talk about untill you have been married for many years. if you do not find out what you can talk about this is what you are looking to.
find what she likes and what you like and see if you can get a conversation going.
see what she believes in and see if you can get a conversation. when the conversation runs out the relationship usually runs out too
2007-03-05 11:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is akward moments in the first month...wow
wait till a year from now...as much as you think your sooo into each other..i kind of doubt you are, or maybe if your talking to her all day everyday you need space
all i know is the first month of a relationship is one of the most awesome things in the world ..a time where you spend so many first together laughing, going out , getting to know each other on a diffrent level...you guys cant even talk?...NEXT please
2007-03-05 11:38:08 · answer #5 · answered by KOOSE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, what HAVE you talked about?? my fiance and i have that problem sometimes. whenever there's a dull moment, i like to throw in some random thing about what's on the news and what i think about it and all. i would say that you two maybe need to think about spending time together and just soaking in the atmosphere and not always try to find things to say....
2007-03-05 11:44:34 · answer #6 · answered by amymrgrt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't always have to talk. Whats wrong with just enjoying each others company. Try to do more activities together so you don't feel like you are just sitting there with nothing to talk about.
2007-03-05 11:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
try hard to get comfortable being with her with out always having to talk. when it is awkward just reach and hold her hand or just look into her eyes for a loving moment
2007-03-05 11:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anne D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea that can happen maybe talk every other night, but i wont worry bout it to much if u guys really like each other it will be ok.
wish you tons of luck.
2007-03-05 11:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to noisy places where conversation is difficult, a disco or so.....
2007-03-05 11:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by Mark N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u could find an activity to do together and u could talk about that! =]
2007-03-05 11:38:42 · answer #11 · answered by leslie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋