My boyfriend and i are on a break right now, we are still really close, and we hang out like normal. He still wants me to call him, but im trying not to because i want to end the relationship for good. It is so hard to not call him, it feels like im on drugs, i am addicted to talking to him, and if i want to call him, and i dont, i get very antsy and i cannot sit still or focus, i feel like im ADD when that happens. My friends have told me to just call them whenever i want to call him, but it doesnt work. What can i do to get over this??? its so hard. I know he is not right for me, he cheated on me. so why do i want to be with him so badly?? why cant i just walk away and be done with it??
2007-03-05 03:20:56 · 9 answers · asked by gibby411892003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
control mind
2007-03-05 03:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happens to every girl...If I was you id leave my phone in the car at night...I know thats when I always like to make my late night phone calls or give your phone to your roomate. I would say delete his number, but Im sure you know it by heart.
Just remember every time you call him, you are giving in, think of yourself as a fool, if for some reason you cant leave your phone in the car and you need it at all the times, call a friend everytime you want to call him.
2007-03-05 11:27:17 · answer #2 · answered by KOOSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, sweets..
It's hard when you break up with someone, especially when you are young (which I am assuming you are), but it gets better.
There isn't anything you can magically do to get him off your mind, only time can do that... Just STOP calling, think of how much he hurt you when he cheated everytime you want to call him. When he calls, blow him off, ignore him! If he still seems to be in love with you be mean to him. He will back off too.
2007-03-05 11:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He cheated on you, you two are on a break, and he wants you to keep calling him. hmmmmm.
Addiction isn't good. Meet with him and tell that you can't go on with this relationship with him like this. You obviously set your mind on it, just do it and get done with it. Delaying the break up won't do you both any good.
2007-03-05 11:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by Living Fantasy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can feel your pain. It is time for you to have a new hobby, like horse riding or playing piano. If you know he is not the one for you, you are doing the right thing by not calling him. Old habits die hard. Be strong.
2007-03-05 11:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe its because u r in love. see the stupid thing about love is that for example a man beats a women and she steady stays with him its because she loves him so much she cant let him go. email me monkeypaws_123@yahoo.com
2007-03-05 11:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by tiara t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stop calling him so much you will push him a way take it from me, been there
2007-03-05 11:24:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
little by little, its hard and it takes time to get used to not seeing him...GOOD LUCK
2007-03-05 11:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get a life!!!
I feel for ya' though :)
2007-03-05 11:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by neiko07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋