My boyfriend was writting letters to girls online and telling them that they were beautiful, and that he was single and he would be the luckiest guy in the world if he could date them. I confronted him about it, and he said it was his depression that made him do it. He said that he just didnt care, and that he couldnt control himself. I want to believe him, but i cant, is that really something that someone would do if they had depression?? we are taking a break and are just friends right now, but not even 2 min, after we broke up, he had made a new myspace and started messaging girls again, and he had changed his profile saying that he was single, and looking for a relationship. The reason why he told me that we were taking a break was to make himself better for me in the future. But he is still looking for someone else i think. should i believe him, or is BSing me???
2007-03-05 03:17:23 · 9 answers · asked by gibby411892003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is BSing you. He wants to keep you on the back burner while he looks for someone he considers to be "better" then you. Don't wait on him. He is not the kind of guy you would want to be with the rest of your life.
2007-03-05 03:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by romettifamily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally BSing you! I have depression not severe but non the less, It does not make you do things like that, if anything he wouldn't be on line searching for girls. Depression effects people in different ways but I have never heard of it effecting someone by looking or wishing for another relationship, I could be wrong I am no expert but I think that he wanted out of the relationship and wanted you to feel sorry for him! It usually makes people irritable non social, and very withdrawn those are just some symptoms, like I said I am not and expert! I wouldn't let his lameness get to you move on you are sooo better off without him! Hope this helps!
2007-03-05 11:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by skeeter_822000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definately BSing you honey! Depression makes people want to stay in bed and do nothing.They don't care about anything.They usually need medication for this as it can get out of hand.If you want to remain friends with him that's fine but don't get yourself hooked up with a liar.You need a real good memory to be a good liar.This guy sounds like he just wanted to let you down easy.He's not depressed he's girl chasing.Try to stay away from this clown and move on.He's probably laughing at you right now for believing him that he is depressed.Don't be fooled men are pretty smart coming up with excuses!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-05 11:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe a word of that. What he did has absolutely nothing to do with depression. This "break" the two of u are on is just time for him to see if he can do better, he certainly isn't thinking of u. Let this guy go, I am sure u deserve much better.
2007-03-05 11:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What he did is not a symptom of depression, but of mania. Mania is when you have a high dose of seritonin and a low level of norepinefrin. Mania's side effects include: being promiscus, spending money that you don't have, and not being able to sleep.
You need to tell him to go to a doctor and get evaluated to see if he may have something called Bipolar Disorder which, if not treated can lead to things like Suicide attempts.
I hope that I was a help to you, Good Luck!!!
2007-03-05 11:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by neiko07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is nothing to do with depression. He is playing games with you. The best thing you can do is move on and find someone who is honest and respects you. This guy is nothing but a "snake in the grass"! You need to set higher standards for yourself in life. Love yourself and settled for nothing but the best. Good Luck! Cocoa
2007-03-05 11:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too good for this guy, hun. If he really has depression, he needs professional help, and should NOT be self-diagnosed.
You need to let him know that it is not an excuse to be chasing after other girls, and that you won't put up with it. If he keeps this crap up, leave him behind, and move on.
2007-03-05 11:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by Laur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK will it be his depression making him sleep with other girls?? This is not depression, when someone is depressed they don't go on the net and chat, they don't want to talk to anyone...they just want to sleep...Tell your fake depress man that if he needs to go on the net to get excitement it's because he is not getting it from you!!! Search your relationship and see what is going wrong in your couple that he need to go and get if off the net. This is called cheating!!!
2007-03-05 11:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Gab♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no!! he is BSing you. leave him for good!! he has no respect for you whatsoever. what a dog!!
2007-03-05 11:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by Essie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋