I know my family will never accept this. But i dont care. I cannot imagine my life without him. Iv loved him for 4 years. hes about 25 years older and i am 23.
2007-03-05 03:16:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hunny ive been there. i was in love with a man 21 years older then me and he just broke my heart. all i can say is be careful. dont jump right in and fallow your heart if your heart say's he's the one be with him dont worrie about your family its about you being happy not them
2007-03-05 03:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know he's spending alot of money on you! I feel you girl these young boys is cheap and they get it from all these little young hoes running around here! I'm 19 and my man is 67 years old and he is white, and my family hates the fact that I am with him but they LOVE to come over to my $200,000 house, and they love to ride in my BMW, and its all in my name and its all paid for! And I will never leave him! My life is great, you should by happy, I am 4uck what they say, is they paying your bills.... NO! They dont have to sleep with him, and I betcha they'll be the first ones to ask if they can borrow a G, and guess what you should say I can afford it but NO BC you can't except the man that helps me live the high life! Your one of the smart ones and I personally think you shouls stay with him because all of these 35 years and under boys aren't doing anything with their life, they have no status, and their definintly gonna cheat. Your man loves you too and I'm pretty sure your gonna work out!
2007-03-05 03:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's great an older man knows what he wants, younger boys are always bragging about how they got this one and that one, an older MAN knows what he wants and doesn't always brag all the time, they usually keep their affairs to themselves! All boys usually want is sex out of a women and don't really know how to care for a women they think with the wrong head! I'd love to be with an younger women and have alot of intiimate fun, but unfortuneately I'm married to an old fart who sexually doesn't want it anymore, I think that's one reason a man chooses a younger women because their always satisfied in everything with a younger women!I'm 50 a know exactly how it feels to be with an older women? I love my wife but some things aren't so great? After 18 years of marriage her sex drive is just about dead!, and that sucks for me, but I married for better or worse, I just hope I out live her, probably will! All she does is anymore is really nothing! Me I always want to go out and enjoy life instead of lying around and complaining all the time!, like her that's the downfall with older women, they get set in their own ways and don't want to do anything.
2007-03-05 05:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a similar situation except the age gap was only 15 years. My question to you is, have you told your parents about him? I thought my family was going to be livid when I told them about Scott but they were more accepting of it than I anticipated. Your parents should be happy for you as long as he treats you right and you are happy. They just want the best for you and if they know you are happy, I am sure they will be willing to accept him. Schedule a dinner where everyone can meet. If the guy you are dating refuses this or doesn't want to meet your parents, get skeptical. Maybe he is the one who is worried about your folks, and for a reason. Nonetheless, good luck with your folks. I am sure it will be fine!
2007-03-05 03:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Rebekah B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he is not a lot older me and my guy are like 14 years apart and not even really close to out of school, actually he is i am not and i really love him, and my family is ok with it, but his is not they have threatened to break us up, and tell me if you really see yourself with him in a couple of years, and it is worth the fight tell youre parents if you do see a future with him. But if you are not all quite sure yet, then date him, or hang out with him, and talk, and see where he sees you and where it leaves you and then tell your parents if you are sure it is appropraite, and a good time. Better be happy than sorry for life, that you let somehting good go that you could have
2007-03-05 03:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by Emmalee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away screaming. Right now. I know you think you love him, but it will never work. Please, find someone your own age. Someone that you can relate to. Has grown up in the same time period as you. Walk away from this relationship.
Disclaimer: I'm jaded and bitter. I got burned by an older man (11 years my senior).
2007-03-05 03:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by raintigar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
relies upon. he's emotionally traumatized. tell him no to the toddler, fairly pondering that you're not any more waiting to have a toddler. tell him what he says he's sweet, yet he's drawing close too strongly. merely tell him to sluggish it down slightly. It sounds to me like you've merely were given the case of pretend love, pondering it doesn't sound like you 2 understand one yet another a lot. i imagine he's merely attempting to administration contained in the ultimate of approaches, it truly is to carry close to a unique lady which will be with him. i'd easily spend extra time getting to carry close one yet another, quite than conversing about love at what seems of a time line of about a month or 2.
2016-11-27 23:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a question? You seem to know what you want and don't seek the approval of your family, so why should you seek the approval of a bunch of strangers? It's your life, and it sounds like you already know what you want to do with it. Go for it!
2007-03-05 03:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by weirdiscomplimentary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. There is somthing to say for standing up to the peer presure and admitting that alder people can be good for the young.
2007-03-05 03:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same dilemma coz i used to love older women! gfollow your heart thats the best way!
2007-03-05 03:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by arnold l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋