I have this guy, and he seems too like me a lot, we go to movies together, out to dinner and talk all the time...but sometimes I feel like he is just using me for sex...this past weekend we got really loaded at a group party, and he pulled me into his room...we ended up having sex and after I had a break down and finally told him that I love him....now he won't talk to me, but before he said that he missed me soo much when I was gone and that he never wants me to go again! What do I do....?
2007-03-05 03:13:42 · 4 answers · asked by VF 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd go with your 6th sense.... "sometimes I feel like he is just using me for sex...."
I'm sorry to say, but from my viewpoint, when you say "I have this guy" it means that you & he aren't really a couple. And if a guy really liked you, he wouldn't "pull you into his room.... and end up having sex....". And then after you tell him that you love him, that he won't talk to you.....
I'm sorry, but guys who consider a girl a "sex partner", will run away once the girl says, "I love you." Those are the 3 killer words that will end a purely sexual relationship. (If the guy likes you, he won't run away.) Going to movies, dinner, and talking.... that's often just the "foreplay", so to speak.
Boys are worth it,.... but not these types of boys. You deserve better!
Best of luck in your decision!
2007-03-05 03:31:09 · answer #1 · answered by sky2evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might just be scared,because its a big statement,give him time to think and get his head around what you've said,I'm sure he'll call you in his own time
2007-03-05 11:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you scared him off by saying that. i've made the same mistake.
2007-03-05 11:23:09 · answer #3 · answered by drummergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should end up with this relationship
boys are not worth it
2007-03-05 11:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by catrina a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋