buys me things, is good to my son.... would always be there and faithful to me but, i am not attracted to him like i was with my ex boyfriend or ex husband. yet they treated me like dirt. what do i do???
2007-03-05 03:06:22 · 3 answers · asked by higa1980ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go slow.... see how it goes. Maybe you'll feel differently at awhile.
If in the past you were attracted to guys who "treated you like dirt," then perhaps you should give the guys who you aren't attracted to, a try.
Sometimes, love is in the places we usually don't look.
If he's "good to your son," "always there and faithful".... those are quite attractive qualities.
If later on, you still don't feel anything, then let him know. If you want, in the meantime, you can also let him know how you stand, honestly.... that right now, you think he's a good guy, but your feelings are not that strong yet,... but you're willing to wait and see and give it a chance, so you'd like to go slow...... something like that. That way, you're not leading him on. If he really likes you, he'll stick around.
Best of luck in your decision!
2007-03-05 03:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by sky2evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a good guy, but if the connection isn't there be hoenst with him and end it. The longer you let go on the more you will seem like a gold digger.
2007-03-05 11:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget the x's get to know the new. That could last. You might love him in time.
2007-03-05 11:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Marilyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋