Let me start by saying I DO NOT SUSPECT HIM OF CHEATING but I sincerely believe there are things my fiance is not telling me concerning his ex-wife and children. His ex has to call because of the children, however before me he wasn't getting his kids at all. I told him it was unexceptable, that if he would spend time with mine, he needs to see his and he did. However, recently he told me he was "taking a break" from getting the kids. I asked why and he said he was just tired. I've developed an admittedly bad habit of checking his cell for texts and vmails from her (long story) and discovered a new message from a week ago (he didn't listen to it) where she was saying she was sorry for something and hopefully he'll start getting the kids again. I'm thinking WHAT has happened that she's sorry for and that would make him stop getting the kids. If I ask him directly I'll have to fess up to having checked his vmail -but should I be willing to do that to find out what the hell is going?
2007-03-05 03:05:53 · 5 answers · asked by Brandy 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you won't agree, no one ever does, when they are a situation they start with, 'You know I dont do
Stop, take a deep breath, clear your mind, step back form the situation and now look at it without your viewpoint. You contradict yourself when you say you dont think he's cheating but you react to his actions as if you do think he is.
Bottom line, you're not even close to being ready to marry him. Go ahead, give me a thumbs down, but I'm only pointing out the evident truth and trying to help. God luck in whatever you choose.
2007-03-05 03:14:40 · answer #1 · answered by ark 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, whatever happened between the two of them is their business. Be patient, he may tell you, on his own, once things settle down. Above all, stop snooping! Either you trust him, or you don't. Since he's not cheating on you, you need to give him the time and space to work out whatever issues he has with his EX. Good luck!
2007-03-05 03:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too sure about that. Maybe his ex did something to really annoyed him so far as to make him take a break from getting the kids.
2007-03-05 03:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by Vaingy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too suspicious. They are bound to talk, they have mutual children.
2007-03-05 03:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by why 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD JUST ASK HIM THE WORST HE IS GONNA DO IS GET MAD FOR A WHILE BUT AT LEAST THEN YOULL KNOW THE TRUTH FROM HIM.......ITS BETTER TO BE TRUTHFUL!
2007-03-05 03:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by April 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋