The first two years we dated was great. Then it all went to downhill. He used to tell me how much he loved me?

Question

And we talked about our feelings. Six years later, we dont talk about our feelings.
I feel like I pushed him away, 4 years ago. He was soo clingy and now I want that. I want him to tell me he loves me and only me. That I am beautiful, I am the only girl for him. We went and picked out rings 4 years ago. Then everything changed. Like we grew up, we cant get away from each other now, but are still not going any where.
Will we ever get that back?

I think I pushed him away, because I was young just turned 21 and wanted to have fun. Now he is 22 and wants to do it.
I am 26. Can we ever get that first 2 years back?

I feel like its my fault for pushing him away. I hurt him, and now he is hurting me.

Answer 1

ok atleat u realize what u did wrong
now its time to fix it what u did
he obviously was rejected by u
so he close up cuz of u

u need to help him open without demandin it from it
the best approach is by leading and motivating him

good luck

Answer 2

Love is a very strange and powerful emotion. It binds all things together and covers over a multitude of sins and wrongdoings. I think in a relationship that if one person is too clingy and the other isn't, then the one that isn't clingy can get aggravated and not want that. But people change, and I think what needs to happen here, is for you to say you were wrong in the past, and you make the step of telling him now how you feel. You must remember that we are all imperfect and cannot show the unfailing love that we all yearn for. Only God can grant that love, and will never abandon you. Seek Him, and try to rectify this situation.

Answer 3

It's not your fault, it's no one's fault...sometimes these things happen, but you should end the relationship so you can find someone that treats you the way you deserve to be treated. You can never go back and recreate anything. It's impossible. Find someone new and and this facade.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

now its your turn
show him how much you love him
tell him what you feel
talk to him freely
let him understand you
tell him you want him back
tell him you are sorry

Answer 6

when time goes by it never returns too late perhaps now

Answer 7

Yeah, I'd blame you too, you blew it.