So theres this girl I know I love, not like but love. I've known her for two years now and never once did my affections quit. Even though shes really beautiful I really love her for who she is. Now the problem is after a year of when I first met her...she got a boyfriend. And they have been dating now(to my continual torment) for almost a year. What makes me angry is that when I see a picture of them together, I dont get jealous because Im just glad shes happy. She doesn't know how I feel about her. But I know she likes me as a friend. Should I wait till they break up? Should I keep my love a secret and become more of a friend to her? Or should I just tell her and hope the cause wont hurt our friendship?
I've tried to just forget about her...but after months of trying I only failed. Trust me I know there are plenty of fish out there in this ocean but for me there is only one that caries the keys to my heart.
Last couple of details, She said to her friend that Im cute and cool.
2007-03-05 03:04:05 · 5 answers · asked by Robert L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Her boyfriend likes me. The strange thing is I am very much like her boyfriend.
2007-03-08 03:49:00 · update #1
You should wait until her current relationship is over, otherwise you are putting a burden on your possible relationship with her.
It's great that you've been patient so far, and it sounds like you really are in love with her. If you tell her now, you risk losing her friendship, and you will be expecting her to be disloyal to her current b/f to start dating you. If you can, wait for her.
Have you dated anyone since you've known her? Has she disliked the girls she thinks you may be interested in? does she make time for you even when she is too busy for her boyfriend, or does she ditch you if he calls? Does her b/f hate you? These are all good ways of picking up whether you should tell her or not.
Very good luck to you!
2007-03-05 03:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sad that guys like you dont come around too often. All you can really do is be her friend, it makes no sense trying to interfere with her relationship. Trust me if it was meant to be you two will end up together eventually, and if you truly love her you will wish her only the best and just be happy for her. Your better off not telling her how you feel cuz that can cause all kinds of drama especially if she is already in a relationship it will only cause confusion. Im not saying you should never tell her how you feel, just not at this moment in time.
2007-03-05 03:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by shorty_by_nature 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to break them up, and don't play the vulture. (waiting for their relationship to die)
Either you tell her how you feel, even if it means the end of your friendship, or you figure out a way to move on and leave them alone.
2007-03-13 03:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awwwww.......thats so cute..well i think if u never take chances its worse atleast if u tell her u'll no how she feels but if u never tell her then its nat good cuz wat if she does like u...and if it ruins ur frendship then it just wasnt meant to be so i say go for it and tell her everything u feel but b4 u say anything u feel tell her even if she doesnt feel tha about u u hope u can still be frends and DONT TELL HER ON THE PHONE OR ONLINE TELL HER IN PERSON!!! ok well i hope my advice helps! <<33
2007-03-05 03:23:27 · answer #4 · answered by cutie wit a booty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the gift of missing you,
go to David DeAngelo dot com and read..
you cant be friends and get the girl..you have to be the cocky/funny jerk and they get the girl everytime...
you dont waht to be her gf anymore do you?
GO! NOW! read his stuff
2007-03-12 22:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋