while talking about music with this co-worker-he interrupted the conversation , got close to my face, and asked if I was wearing lipstick, (i have thick lips) then he rant off about something and i only heard him saying something about me biting off his ''thing" -he does tend to joke like that. what could he have ment by that? he's 25 and engaged, and i am 19..
my friend katie was right next to me when he said these things.
2007-03-05 03:00:35 · 24 answers · asked by precious 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
This is sexual harrassment. I am a manager and have had to deal with this before and I can tell you almost all companies take this very seriously and have a zero tolerance. I would either report him or tell if it happens again you will report him. I bet he will stop. If not he will continue to push to see what he can get away with. Good Luck.
2007-03-05 06:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time something like this happens, nip it in the bud. Tell the jerk to watch his mouth and that the next time he says anything inappropriate he will be reported. There are laws against sexual harrassment.
2007-03-05 03:13:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's engaged I feel sorry for his fiance'. He sounds like a real jerk that needs to learn some manners, and have someone explain sexual harassment to him.
2007-03-05 04:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by bugs280 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he meant to intimidate you. However, more serious than this he committed sexual harrassment toward you which you have aright to be protected against. He should be reported as no employee has the right to submit their employees to such treatment. You have rights.
2007-03-05 03:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kerry 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
He probably wishes that you could do him a favor down there with your thick lips. If I had to take a guess, I would guess that's what he is talking about.
2007-03-05 03:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by lighthouse_38 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's not normal, I'd have told him to get lost real quick. Not polite but I'm not trying to be polite to guys who get into my face like that!
2007-03-05 03:28:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sheriam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How the heck would I know? You and your friend were there and neither of you know. He sounds like a moron to me. Why do you care what some idiot says?
2007-03-05 03:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by sity.cent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can definitely be considered sexual harrassment. If you didn't like this behavior you should document it and report the incident to your supervisor. If your supervisor doesn't take the report seriously go to management.
2007-03-05 03:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by grantwiscour 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
File sexual harrasment with Human Resources. That should stop that creep. Good luck ;)
2007-03-05 05:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by C L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh ...he meant that he is too chicken to 'shorten' his 'thing' himself (for whatever reasons) and would need your sharp teeth to bite a chunk off.
2007-03-05 03:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by Phantom of the Opera 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋