i have a couple of friends who wont talk to me since my crush asked me out. and now they're mad at me and i have no clue why and they wont tell me. i just dont know wat i did wrong.
2007-03-05 02:54:55 · 21 answers · asked by isabella devon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. It could be that they are jealous that they do not have someone special interested in them.
2007-03-05 02:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by RikChick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are jealous. Unless they have a legitimate beef with your crush, they just want someone to ask them out too. They are know as "haters". Haters can't find romantic relationships of their own usually, so when they see you enjoying one, they will try to make it as miserable as possible for you. I have found that the best way to deal with haters is to completely ignore them. You have done NOTHING wrong, you have to know that. Just keep doing what you do and the haters will fall in line. Once you let them affect you, they will see that their behavior works, and they will do it every time you find someone. Be strong and enjoy your new crush.
2007-03-05 03:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by The doctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likely they are jealous that their crushes are not asking them out or worried that you may be a boyfriend and spend less time with them. Best thing to do is reassure them that in time boys they like will notice them too and that even if you get a boyfriend, you are still their friend and set up days or times that are "friend" time and stick to them.
2007-03-05 02:59:17 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either your friends had a crush on the same guy or else you are ignoring them to spend time with him, which is annoying them.
You're going to have to go talk to them and say, "Look, I know you're mad, but I can't fix it if you don't tell me what I did wrong. I'm not a mind-reader."
Good luck!
2007-03-05 02:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a little vague but chicks are like that.. As soon as they hook up with someone, they tend to give more attention to him than to their friends.. The friends get mad/jealous and give the friendship up.. All you can do is try to work it out. If they aren't willing to listen, then they aren't true friends, and let them go.
2007-03-05 03:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe they liked him and just didnt want to tell u so they would not think that they would hurt you by likein him or maybe they know things about him that you dont and they are watching out for you and want you to break up with him because of what they know they may even be a lil jelous but if u are happy then just be your self and don't worry about what other people think or what they want go have fun be happy good luck
2007-03-05 03:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look them straight in the eyes and tell them to stop only thinking of themselves and be areal true friend and let you know whats wrong because you cant make things right not knowing.
2007-03-05 03:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing, apparently. Seems your so-called "friends" are a bit jealous. Do not flaunt your new boyfriend around them or make a big deal about it with them. If they are true friends, they will calm down about this after awhile. Good luck.
2007-03-05 02:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it possible that they're jealous? Have you changed your attitude toward them since it's happened? Look at the situation closer and I am sure you'll find your answer.
2007-03-05 02:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did nothing wrong they are just mad because your crush ask you out and not them they probble like im to and if they are at you for that there not your friend
2007-03-05 03:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by shygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋