my boyfriend thinks its wierd to hold my hand but i dont want to ask him to hold it cause i dont want him to think im to pushy and break up with me what do i do
2007-03-05 01:37:37 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about the breaking up part.
What was meant to be will be.
You can't live in a fear-based world or with a fear-based relationship.
2007-03-05 01:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why he dos'nt want to, tell him that you would really like to hold his hand as it makes you feel closer to him. Tell him that you are proud to be seen with him and thats why you want to show people that you are together. Maybe hes just not used to having a girlfriend or maybe his parents dont really show each other effection so it seems wierd to him! Talk to him and try and be understanding.
2007-03-05 01:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need some nice pine tar. Smother your hand with it while watching a movie in the theatre. During the "scary part" hold his hand and then he cant let go! Then you can do whatever you want with him, like sell him to a caravan of marauders, or turn him into a drag queen.
2007-03-05 01:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by Joe K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
look in some relationships men go very shy . maybe thats because u r having a new relationship, give him some time 2 open up. he loves u 2 but he just needs some time and u can hang out together to see a film or just for dinner and maybe he takes a step towards u. best of luck.
2007-03-05 01:41:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's uncomfortable doing it, he shouldn't have to. You should get used to feeling loved in different ways while you're with him, if you have to hold someones hand there are plenty of other guys who will. Good luck
2007-03-05 01:42:36 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My new lady chum does not carry my hand the two. it somewhat is organic that I do so as quickly as we are out walking interior the city and are in simple terms in a crowd and stuff. yet she in simple terms won't start up up it. i think of your boyfriend is in simple terms too shy to do it in public or feels awkward doing it. in specific circumstances it takes a on an analogous time as to conform jointly with your companion's %. quite once you 2 are walking jointly. some women I dated weren't so sturdy at it that I continuously enable my arm loose. That way that they had extra area to go around. additionally you are able to attempt grabbing his arm leaning on him. (this may be extra easy than conserving arms..) besides, you're able to desire to save beginning it with out annoying too lots, and do something that makes him sense extra confortable. finally he will come to you. i don't think of this has something to do with him not liking to do it.
2016-10-17 07:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by troesch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he would break up with you for something as silly as holding your hand than why would you want to be with someone who would act so insensitive and immature.
2007-03-05 01:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up? Over holding hands?
Out of elementary school yet?
2007-03-05 01:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you tell him that its ok to hold hands and that is what people going out are suposed to do....Tell that if he looked aroud he would see other people doing it....I hold hands with my boyfriends all the time......
2007-03-05 01:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Lilly A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great piece of advice Nadeem "touch yourself after getting married" she will probably do that if she marries a guy who would not hold her hand.
2007-03-05 01:42:39 · answer #10 · answered by Chichou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋