divorce or is it pett stuff?

Question

last nite my husband when horse back riding and i was ok with that. but then he came in the house go some money out of my purse.(its dark outside ok) then he said that he was going to buy a six pack of beer and was gone for over 2 hrs i knew he had gone to a bar or something so when he finaly comes home about 9 pm i was taking a shower and he asked me if i was mad and i told him he should know cause he has spent time with me all weekend and he always makes time for his friends..he said that his friend was having problems and so he went to have some beers with him but yet who going to help him when he has problems with me....he started to ignore me so we where liying down i bed and i was telling him how i felt and he tuned me out....i turned him over to listen to me and he got upsit and yelling things at me so i ****** him up scrateshes bitting and he started hitting me to and worst of all he yelled at me why don you tell the father of your kids to support them. my kids havent seen him

Answer 1

The dude is frastrated and you are part of the blame! You are not helping the situation, either, by doing what you did physically to him.

Do you work and earn some money to support the familly or just him? If not, then you and your childdren who don't get the support from their biological father, are becoming a big burden on him. Get a job or get the financial support for the children from their father.

I don't think its cours for divorce, its more of a petty stuff, out of frastration. But you would know better.

All the best!/

Answer 2

Physically attacking a man is a REALLY BAD IDEA.

He should be thinking about whether to leave you.

Of course, you haven't said who pays for what, which may affect other things.

But DON'T PHYSICALLY ATTACK A MAN. It's very dangerous, even if he deserves it. Or if it's not dangerous, then you're wrongfully taking advantage of his good nature.