He treats his kids with love and respect but he treats me like trash.
He tells me to do everything when he could easily do it himself.
My mother does everything he says so i'm on my own. i'm only a teenager and shouldn't be going through this stress.
2007-03-05 01:35:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ignore him as much as possible.....do what you have to do and move out when you are able. Ther could be a lot of reasons why...maybe he is attracted to you and if he is nice to you your mom might flip out thinking somethings up. It could be that is his way of coping with his internal guilt....I am sure you are a prettier version of your mom.
2007-03-05 01:39:37 · answer #1 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should first tell your mom. When she is alone. That will let her know. Then when he does disrespect you, she'll see it. Maybe, she'll stop it. Never know. If that doesn't work. Talk face to face with your stepfather. Then if it doesn't stop.(Be Careful with this step) When he tells you to do something. MAKE A SCENE! Yell at him, tell him your NOT going to do it. Because he isn't asking other people in this house to do anything! It's always me! Why can't you respect me?? and the like. then storm off into your room. MAKE SURE YOU ARE IN YOUR HOUSE. MAKE SURE YOUR ROOM HAS A LOCK. MAKE SURE YOU HAVE A PHONE. If he really does hate you, he could physically abuse you. Be very careful.
(I'm not a professional These are things that I think would work.)
2007-03-05 01:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by stvarena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and talk to him.
Tell him how he is being unfair and that you will not be part of it anymore.
Either he treats you with respect or you won't give him respect.
You should not be his maid and you need to stop doing everything for him.
if your mum chooses to do it, it is her problem.
I certainly wouldn't let the step sisters or brothers rule the roost and treat me like the maid.
You need to stand up for yourself and put a stop to this right now, before it goes any further.
demand to be treated like a daughter and don't take no for an answer, even if he gives you a hard time.
you deserve to have all the perks that his kids do.
2007-03-05 01:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing happened to me,looking back now my mum thinks she was partly to blame for not doing enough to help me out with that situation (sorta true) it took me years to get over my step father and the way he treated me compared to his own son and daughter, now i dont want anything to do with him,if your mum wont take you seriously then seek help from someone else rather than have years of stress in the future.
Im 33 now and will probably never be how I was going to be,I hope you can sort this out,dont let it drag you down kid!
Good luck to you.
2007-03-05 01:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by stroppa2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my step father hates me to but the only reason why is cause the problem hes got is me cause i wont let him have the authority he wants cause if my father is still alive then thats who i listen to but step fathers always have problems wit step kids cause they never get it through there head that if u didnt grow up wit them since u were a kid then its not the same cause some stepfathers been wit stepkids all through the kids life thats understandable to act like that but if u already a teen a ur mom remarries that guy doesnt know who u are deep down he only knows u from wen he meets till they split up look do wat u need to do an who cares wat ur step father says if u want hit me up i got u
2007-03-05 02:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in school. move out when you turn 18. and what is a "fava"?
2007-03-05 01:37:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋