How do I change back?

Question

I used to be a reall sweet gurl. I used to love helping people and hanging with my friends and I used to be overall very cool to hang oiut with. Now all because I wanted to impress a boy 5 years ago, I started going downhill. I now swear, some of my grades are good, I have a really bad attitude and a lot of people think I'm obsessed over guys. I want to go back to being the real me the nice me that a lot of people liked. Now i'm hardly liked because of the way I am.
Everytime I try to go back to being normal, something in my past always brings out the FAKE me! I need tips on what to do about people who bring back up the past and never let me forget what happened. I just want to be myself again. How do I ignore the past and the people who keep bringing it up and be myself again before I do something I'll regret.

Answer 1

bang me

Answer 2

I don't no the specific's of what you've done in your past that noone can forget and you don't say how old you are. But since im not sure what you did i'll go from here with depending upon what it was you will just have to fix yourself and if someone cannot forgive you and forget you will have to just forget about them being a part of your life. you may have to just start over with a whole different group of friends. But be honest with yourself make the changes to get back to being a good person and true friends will notice , it's never to late to change sweetie! EVERYONE has done thing's they regret in life, the first thing is to learn from your mistake's FORGIVE YOURSELF, because noone can forgive you until you do.
Good Luck

Answer 3

The first thing that you have to realize is that there are people who believe that once a person does something bad, they are always bad. These people do not believe that others can change.

The second thing that you have to focus on is doing what your heart tells you to. Do not pay any attention to those people who do not believe you can change. Remember that you changed from "good" to "bad" once and you can change back.

If you live by the rule of do unto others as you would have done to you, you will go far. You do not have to be religious to live by that rule. It is common sense to live by that simple rule and will make you a great person.

Do not worry about the past. Over time people forget about things you might have done. In time, people will forget those things and you will be able to move on. There will be a few people who will always remember the bad things, but that is just how they are. You cannot worry about those negative people.

Take care,
Troy

Answer 4

The only thing you can do is don't live with regrets. Move on because with experience you learn. And you learned that one person you tried being isn't you at all. Try to ignore all the people that bring up the past and just be yourself. I know it will be hard but if you don't live with regret with the past it's a little easier to be yourself. With regret it's a little harder to move on from the past. So take it as more of a learning experience.

Answer 5

Theres only you can do this hun no one can tell you what to do to change back into who you used to be

if youve been like this for 5 years maybe this is who you are now,its going to be hard work to try and gain back some respect, but im sure it can be done

good luck

Answer 6

Those people just want to hurt you so you tell them no one is perfect and your trying to change who are they to judge you. Dont let them bring you down b/c if you do they will have won.lol

Answer 7

you can't change back. what you need to do just do it , just do yourself. there is not a kind of drag named regret. forward looking, just make a good thing each day, days and days later, you will be popular again, i believe.