i have been with my girlfriend for 3 yrs i moved 200 miles,left my family&friends behind & have nothin but her here she is 21 now an im 22 this thurs(guna b the worst bday ever)we have been engaged for 1yr.the other week we went out seperate but i didnt *** in on time cuz i didnt here from her & was being stubbon.in the mornin she basically said it was over just cuz she cuddnt trust me anymore i did do it a few times b4 but,this time it was over,i stayed at mates an 1day later she tx me sayin she missed me then we were ok abit but she still wasnt sure,she said she wanted to try.i continued to stay at mates an she said she was goin out clubbing with her mates after that she then said she wanted to be single then1day later,she wanted me to *** bk again and give it ago,can we really give it1 more go she has been acting weird with me 2day sayin she lvs me but not being close with me i really need help cuz my head is so mashed up i wana giv it a shot but am scared does she really want me?
2007-03-05 01:02:59 · 3 answers · asked by trueplayer666 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how long do i give her i dont want to break with her i want it to be mutuall she hass had almost a week now and in that time has said she wants me bk and the dosent about6 times i feel like i cant take it much longer its damaging my health its affecting my work as i have been of2days cuz i cant face putting a brave face on i have the shackes,last night i told her we have to sort it we r going out 2nite 4 a drive to talk it over i just hope we get it sorted im torn between my wellbeing and my love for her has any1been in this situation b4 any advice as im starting to feel like there is no point in life
2007-03-06 00:00:07 · update #1
im sorry to say that things dont seem all the best honey
i think you need to be happy in yourself first if your staying out and not telling her then thats selfish but she cant keep saying she does then doesnt want you
you need to make your social life better
why dont you try sorting out a local footy team or even starting a yahoo forum looking fro drinking buddies
advertise on gumtree for people in your situatiion that need to expand their social circle
try taking your girl out more
surprise her with a picnic in the park dont make all your quality time just you and her at home in the flat
and stop watching TV it cripples realtionships
make one night a week a TV free zone
and have a nice dinner and bottle of wine
you need to focus more on your speciual moments and not just expect it to work cause you think your in love
2007-03-05 01:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by leelu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually realy confused :S so shes pissed off coz u came home late yeah?? and so she dumped u coz of that?? she needs to grow up if thats the case plus she needs to make up her mind if she wants u or not tell her straight u want me or not if she cant decided leave her im sure ur family would have u bk like that!!!
2007-03-05 01:59:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't trust you there is no point to the relationship - what kind of a life is that for you never mind her.
2007-03-06 03:19:12 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋