please help
2007-03-05 01:02:08 · 12 answers · asked by ali#1 hotcheka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was in high school, I was dating this guy that was completely head over heels in love with me. I started getting bored of him and tried breaking up with him several times, but every time, he threatened to kill himself. I knew that if he did, it wouldn't really be my fault, but I felt guilty. I cheated on him to piss him off... that way, he'd break up with me and I wouldn't feel so bad. It worked!
I'm not suggesting you do that... but it worked for me.
2007-03-05 01:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, you're in a real predicament. We're talking about dumping, not some mere excuse for why you couldn't turn up last weekend ect. Get it over and done with. If you can justify it with reasons, it would probably intensify/reduce the hurt. I don't know, varies from guy to guy. Good luck.
2007-03-05 09:07:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was you i would just be completely honest .Tell him the real reason you wanna end it, at the end of the day you shouldnt be with somebody you dont want to be with, its your life live it how you want !!!just be honest and do it in a civilised way.I strongly advise against text dumping , very messy!!
2007-03-05 09:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by katie c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up with someone without hurting them is near impossible. Tell him how you feel. Most likely he'll be hurt- but just give it time and things should work themselves out.
2007-03-05 09:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by KnottyJ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really likes you then there is no way to do it without hurting him. Just be honest. If your not it will only hurt him more when he finds out.
2007-03-05 09:04:29 · answer #5 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him an email. Say things aren't working out and you don't want to see him anymore.
2007-03-05 09:33:17 · answer #6 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. he'l only get hurt if he truly thot u 2 had sumthn goin.. if u think hez nt botherd then tell him.. if he liked u alot o loved u then mayb u shud make it work.. dont break his heart!!
2007-03-05 09:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by PeAcE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way of not hurting ...even u will feel hurt ...coz i broke up with my bf today ..thou im the one dumping ... i feel like crying ...
2007-03-05 09:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanted to dump him too. since last yr. after several tries, now i noe its impossible. *sigh*
2007-03-05 09:06:52 · answer #9 · answered by vernicalo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U SHOULD JUST BE REAL WIT HIM AND TELL HIM THA TRUTH IM SURE U WONT HURT HIS FEELINGS BUT IF U DO HURT HIS FEELINGS DEN JUST TELL HIM YALL CAN BE FRIENDZ
2007-03-05 09:05:55 · answer #10 · answered by bigbooty_252 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋