my boyfriend and i got back 2getha after breaking up 4 3wks, i realli plsd and so is he, things have got alot better between us. all is going well we resolved the problems we wer having. but then 2day he told me that the guys he wrks with dnt no we r back 2getha cause they wld give him stick bout it i got annoyed at him, hes not realli m8s with them n wldnt c them out of wrk and he said that he has told anyone that needs 2 no and they dnt need 2. he just dnt wna cause agro with them i ave 2 admit they are annoyin and i dnt like them neway but its just the principle of the thing. i think i mite have over reacted wats ur opinion?
thanks
2007-03-05 01:01:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry about the shortened words i was in a rush.
2007-03-05 01:07:52 · update #1
I understand your reasons for feeling this way, but at least he's telling people who matter. At the end of the day, his personal life is his own, and he probably doesn't need any agro from guys he works with.
It's different for us girls - it's the first thing we would tell all our workmates, but he's obviously into you, he's telling the right people, so don't stress on it.
Maybe there was a little overreaction, but heck... you're only human!!
2007-03-05 01:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by PrettyKitty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First things first - if you put another question on here - can you actually just write it long hand instead of all this dnt/2getha - half written words rubbish. thanks - its a room 101 thing for me.
ok - if you dont like his work collegues and he doesn't like them either - maybe he is just trying to avoid agro at work - maybe they are the sort of blokes to call him a soft touch etc - and when your trying to sort things out with a partner the last thing you need is people who only half a brain between them making things 10 times worse for you both.
main thing is your back together and working things out - concentrate on that - not something as silly as who knows. As he said - the important people in your life know and that really all that matters.
good luck
x
2007-03-05 09:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i take it you have expressed to him how you feel about this? also, why is he ashamed to announce it to the whole world (including those he works with) that you guys are back together and he is on cloud nine?
that should tell you a lot right there.
I would move on if he can not admit that you are back together and be proud of it.
think it through...why did you break up in the first place...yes, you are happy cause you are in the "newness" phase again, but you already have issues with him not telling the people he works with. How long before you start having major problems and break up again. Something I think ou should really think about. that is to stay or tell him to hit the road. there are tons of nice guys out there who would be proud to have you by their side and let the whole world know.
Please think it through and decide why (if there is any reason) you should be together.
be cool...
2007-03-05 09:22:11 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on the problems you already have, don't create new ones.
It sounds like he did it for exactly the reason he told you he did - he doesn't want agro. What business is it of theirs anyway?
Good luck, and I'm sorry if I come off as harsh
xx
2007-03-05 09:34:52 · answer #4 · answered by b3xecutioner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me finks yu is wurried bout nuffink - wot hiz m8tes fink iz naf al 2 wurry bout - du wot yu fink iz 4 de best.
Purraps a dicktionary mite elp in riting propurlie az wel
2007-03-05 09:06:48 · answer #5 · answered by jamand 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its either oneof 2 things i think. One:he dosnt wanna tell them cause he really just dosnt want the hassle at work. lads dont like to be the centre of attention when it comes to getting stick and being the one singled out
two:theres a reason he int tellin them , maybe hes telling them he aint back with you to hide something.
i would sit and talk to him tell him how your feeling and get him tounderstand your reason for being worried about it.
2007-03-05 09:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by katie c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm give him time he'll have to tell them soon ...but who cares they only work mates , my bf is close to his works mates so they no more about my relationship than me which is very annoyin...all i can say is dont be so hard on him i no men dont like gettin teased about bein loved up im sure he loves u very much!!!
2007-03-05 09:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should be annopyed at the end of the day if he inst mates with them then his relationship stuff is really none of their business
its yours and his business and if they like taking the mick out of people then he is just giving himself and easier ride
they might jib him about stuff all day
but really its none of their business
so he shouldnt have to tell them anything
the fact that he told you he isnt telling them suggests he is not up to anything underhand
guys arnt like us they dont feel the need to express everything from the nearest roof top alot of the time they just like to be private
2007-03-05 10:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by leelu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he ashamed of you or something !
he should grow up and be a man, is he scared of them or somethin.
if he loves you he shouldnt care who knows, tell him to shout it from the tree tops, i think you are right to react the way you are.
2007-03-05 10:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by pussycat doll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes !!! Be annoyed - be very annoyed - sounds like he's embarressed of you?? Otherwise why lie at work - strange
2007-03-05 09:16:09 · answer #10 · answered by Blobby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋