and get in a long-term relationship with him?
He is kind-hearted, loving and has a great sense of humor.
But...
He is turning 34, yet still shares a 3-bed-room apartment with 2 guys. ( They are all straight in case some of you may wonder if he is gay). He does not drive and has no driver's license. He lives in a big city so there is public transportation. He has a job that pays the bill and finds it very hard to save. He is a smoker.
2007-03-05 00:53:05 · 18 answers · asked by LS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not, if he was my type then yes, what more can you ask for some one who is kind, working,gsoh so what if hes sharing and doesnt drive, doesnt mean he cant show a girl a good time
2007-03-05 00:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥™Tia™♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I personally dont date smokers. Everything else is cool though. Cars and things dont flatter me as long as the guy treats me good. And the good thing is that u DO have a job. Whether u are making all the money in the world is besides the point. The point is that u have enough drive to take care of yourself. However there is ALWAYS room for improvement and u have to be constantly changing for the better, u cant stay in one place in your life forever
2007-03-05 00:58:55 · answer #2 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, we could work on the budget. I am sure there are many women who would date him. He is living with two other men, not abnormal probably saving money. He lives in a major city with public transportation so no need for a drivers license. He works, therefore he has a work ethic. He smokes? We could work on that one also. God bless****
2007-03-05 00:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep.. nothin wrong there. SOme chics move in with there gf's and share accomdation. No biggy He's got a few good points his kind hearted, lovin, great sense of humor the rest can change ie move out etc
2007-03-05 01:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
At least he doesn't live at home with his mommy!
I'd be really careful with this one...does he party a lot? You can count on ZERO privacy....nothing sacred between the 2 of you...if he can't save money then he will be looking for you for back-up. Smoking is a big issue...have you ever licked an ashtray???
2007-03-05 00:57:49 · answer #5 · answered by jennw33 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hhmm... the question is? is he your type? if he is go for it girl!
Is your qualification for a husband have to be a non-smoker, does know how to drive and thrifty? If that's what you're looking for. then forget the guy and find another.
But i think he's ok, it's just that he smokes! I hate smokers.
2007-03-05 01:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by hannah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
*He's 34: Age is nothing but a number. * He shares a flat with two guys: He's a guy, guys like sharing the rent even if they are not good savers. * He's a smoker : If you dont like a smoker, don't date him.
That's what I'd do.
2007-03-05 01:18:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't date him because his circumstances are already far to complicated and he's a smoker. Nope, save yourself from certain grief with this guy and move on.
2007-03-05 01:04:13 · answer #8 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well..if he is kind,loving and have a sense of humor then i would say take your chance..go for it. the other stuff that you mention arent really big deals because those things can be easily change.good luck!
2007-03-05 00:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Chastons Wifey♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'd never date a smoker, drinker, or an alcoholic. and i'm taken.
2007-03-05 00:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by ** i Am hiS giRL ** 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋