but his sex is bad but he treats me good an shows me love an i can talk to him about anything,but again his sex is bad,now on the other hand the man i have been talking to is so shady acting one day he is loving the next he just picks fights with me an doesnt wont me around him.he has done me wrong many times b 4 thats y he's an ex but his sex is great i know he only wants my body but that is what i want from him,i dont want to b with him but the sex is great an i love him still even thow he treats me like he do on the other hand the other man treats me so good its just he lacks in the bedroom department what should i do i dont want to hurt my new man but he aint fulfilling my needs an the 1st is,an what can i do to get over the 1st i try an try but cant exscape him an like i said i still have love for him see how confused i am please somebody lend a helping hand.
2007-03-05 00:42:36 · 10 answers · asked by liciacheckonit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you are saying this right he was your first love and you will always have a spot in your heart for the man but you need to get rid of him because he doesn't make you feel good 100% of the time. It is a man that makes you want to be yourself around him that you will find true happiness. The first guy is the right one for you...you just have to sit down and talk to him let him know what you want and feel. Make it a game for the both of you explore your sexual sides and maybe he will pick something up that you like and stick with it. You never know when you teach someone and lead them down a path to being better
2007-03-05 00:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by vblvly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he hasn't been with many people in the bedroom area or maybe he's affraid because he doen't know what you like if you like him and he treats you really good
sex isn't everything
and when you get old i guess sex will be there to hold your and when your sick sex will be there to hold your hand and get you some tissues
the two of you can grow as one to gether teaching each other
tellhim what you like better yet show him what you like most men like that kind of thing anyway
most men have fears when the sleep with women
he just needs some assurance or you could do all the work
2007-03-05 00:55:31 · answer #2 · answered by country-girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dich the guy who is lacking in the bedroom b/c if you dont you will always need someone who will fullfill that void and in the long run end up hurting hiim anyway. I went thru that and he was not someone that made me think of him I just wanted it over with and he ended up turning me off after a while.You will eventually meet someone who is both nice and a good lover dont waste your valuable time on either guy or you will live to regret time wasted life is to short.lol
2007-03-05 01:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you want exactly
1st:the saint who is poor in bed or the bandit who is good in bed
2nd:a deceant relationship or a sex filled adventure
answer urself that then u will know who is who
also u can discuss with ur saint about his perfomance maybe he can improve
again choose one of them then work on his problem to be the perfect guy,,,
2007-03-05 00:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the first two and find somebody you know is good for you.
2007-03-05 00:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the old one and teach the new one about sex! The old one is just using you and the new one can learn how to please you.
2007-03-05 00:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the good man....teach him what you like in the sex dept....good luck
2007-03-05 00:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
teach the new man
2007-03-05 01:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you said you just want him "for his body" and "I love him" in the same sentence!!!!!
2007-03-05 00:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with nice guy and buy a vibrator
2007-03-05 00:49:04 · answer #10 · answered by snehesh 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋