2007-03-05 00:22:34 · 6 answers · asked by possessed Regan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Betty, i'm 28 too, but i'm single and i have no kids. I still don't know if i want kids, i'm so afraid i will lose my freedom when i have kids and i will end up being a single mother, living in poverty, never being able to travel, never having the chance anymore to meet a new partner cause guys won't be interested in me cause i have kids. This scenario is just a nightmare to me. My fear of this is so big, i don't wanna start having kids at all. And then again, i don't even have a relationship and i have no idea how to find Mr. Right. So without Mr. Right, there won't be any kids anyway. I'm also very afraid my body will be ruined after pregnancy.
2007-03-05 00:50:48 · update #1
I never ever did. I was positive that I wanted my life to be mine, to go and do what I wanted, when I wanted. I said this from the time I was 15 all the way until I was 28. Then I met him. The man I am marrying. It sounds SO cheesy, and trust me I know it. Now that I am with him, I want to experience everything with him, including children. Scary thought, never realized loving someone so much can change the way you view your whole world. I think women should go with their gut instinct, if they don't want them, it's not being selfish and if they do, and are ready and sure about it, go for it.
2007-03-05 00:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by Colleen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Till like a couple of months ago I was positive I didnt want kids EVER. But then I realised that in like more than 10 years or when I turn 30 I might want to because I dont want to end up all alone my whole life. But I want a career and independence first.
2007-03-05 08:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want kids cuz i love them and i love having sex with my partner. i think kids are most cutest thing in the world.
2007-03-05 08:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by love....me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want kids because i love little one and i love to take care of them. when i graduate school i am goin to college to become a pediatrician.
2007-03-05 08:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by augustboo_19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do...i would have something that was a part of me that i made and someone who would love me unconditonally..
2007-03-05 08:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea25609 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes yes, sometimes no....dunno y////
2007-03-05 08:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by dong ai rui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋