here is what happened we were at borders getting a drink and the lady said that she was going to call me when it was ready so some time went by and she never called me so when i finally got up my drink was just sitting there with no top on it. but my recipet was under it. so i got mad because she just left my drink out there anyone could have slipt anything in it thank god that they didnt or someone could have taken it. she never called my name i was sitting right in front of her(eye distance). so my boyfriend was sitting right there and he got mad he said that i shouldnt have gotten that mad and he said that he wanted to take a break so we broke up over this. he said the way that i acted he didnt like it and that he lost a lot of respect for me.we have been knowing each other for a year i love him so so much that it hurts. but i decided that im not going to call him that if he wants me back he will call me. i dont know what to do will someone olease help me.
2007-03-05 00:03:49 · 22 answers · asked by mzculpepper06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i see now that i was wrong and i cant take that back as much as i want to i told him that i was so sorry and he accepted my aploigie. but he still wants a break
2007-03-05 00:09:25 · update #1
Look on the positive side. If you do not eat for a while, you will lose some uneeded fat and be able to snag a better bf next time.
2007-03-05 00:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the whole story or you personnally, but here are a couple of ideas.
it is a poor excuse... but you might consider how you behave in public. If you are loud or rude then maybe learn to be a little more quiet and not make such a big deal out of things. Also use a little common sense, If you were with your boyfriend and he was there with you most likely no one is going to mess with you.
Or just politely ask the waitress if that was your drink that was sitting there, and nicely tell her that you don't like for your drink to be sitting out unattended because of a bad experience.
Most guys don't like for girls to be loud, rude and demading... If you naturally are that way then you have two options- A. refine your behavior, or 2. find a guy that likes you for who you are! If it was a one time incident, than just lose this guy because he was just LOOKING for a reason to dump you or pick a fight! Guys will do that! they will find one little thing and pick a fight, maybe so he could go out that weekend without you or with someone else! If he comes running back to you saying how sorry he is, then I would be VERY careful to find out what he had done... or who
There are a lot more guys out there... I know it hurts, but find someone who likes you for you.
2007-03-05 00:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by fancyfree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should apologize, say that he was right that u shouldn't have acted up over this drink thing and that u made a mistake. He might take you back, because that was a really stupid thing 2 break up over. If he doesn't, you have 2 eat and sleep because u can move on. I'm sure that there are more than one guy in the world that will love u and have feelings 4 u.
2007-03-05 00:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by yoyoyowatup3579 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, let`s think together. I think on the situation with the lady - you were right - she should have told you or call when your order was ready, but your reaction to this conflict could have benn different - as far as i understand this fact made your boy-friend sad and losing his respect to you. i think this happened not because of this fact woth the lady - but it was like a snowball - that grows and grows and then drives over you. May be this overemotional reaction makes your boy-friend scared???
And also about a call... Think of calling him and trying to talk - say it makes you feel so bad and you need help to understand what was wrong and help to improve your emotions control.
I think this is nto a great problem that can really make you apart.
You know - this lady and this drink you have ordered - do not worth loosing your boy-friend.
2007-03-05 00:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by helga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel really bad for you I know you love him and miss him but you already did your part you apologized to him. He broke up with you over something like this that just doesn't really make any since and we all have are bad days but he should be a bit more understanding that you got upset and just brush it off. I feel that you should really find out what the real reason was ask him and if he doesn't have a clear answer for you then maybe he isn't ready to settle down and was looking for a way out but you have to accept it if he doesn't want to work it out then you need to move on. You deserved better anyway good luck.
2007-03-05 00:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by sadgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Girl wake up!!! I know you love your bf but hey he broke up with you just because you got mad at the waitress when it was the waitress fault. If he can't accept a girl that knows what is right and what is not then he isn't worth crying over. Watch a movie and eat chocolate you'll feel better soon. Just remember the reason why he broke up with you which is just so lame
2007-03-05 00:12:57 · answer #6 · answered by just trying to help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its painful girl,I don't think u need to call him just try and focus on something else if he wants u he will call but u don't deserve this , you worth more than this , so just chill maybe you can even find someone who will respect u and understand that u are a human being and u also do mistakes.
Wish u good luck
2007-03-05 00:18:25 · answer #7 · answered by NUNU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I hate to say it but I don't think that this breakup was on a whim. It was certainly a poor moment to actually go through with it, but he probably didn't know how else to bring it up. I can completely understand how much this hurts. I've been through it. My guess is that you need to talk to him about it, not so much about the actual situation in the restaurant, but about the problems that must be in your relationship. Ignoring these issues really only leads to something like this, so see if you can really repair the weak spots.
2007-03-05 00:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by filledesarcenciel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not why he broke up with you. He used that as his excuse...pretty lame one though...you got mad (how terrible). He doesn't have the guts to tell you the truth and thats sad for him, but you on the other hand have just been dealt a sweet hand because he just proved he's not worth your time and now you can find someone who is! Let him go.
2007-03-05 00:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by bundy_bee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he was looking for the right moment to break up with you , must already have planned that a while back. This was just the moment he was waiting for , a poor excuse
2007-03-05 00:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋