i met this guy on the bus and we really got talking,u know,he asked me about my day and i was really flattered..its not everyday that a guy asks about your day. so anyway before i got to my stop i was chattin on ''mxit''(a mobile chatroom) and he asked me to add him and invite him on "mxit". got home and kinda 4got about the whole thing. the next time i logged on to "mxit" he was there. so i could say thats how we got to know each other.i know a lot aabout him and he knows a little too much about me..so anyways he suggested that we meet up..we finally meet and had a great time..we went to his flat and we got talking some more and i could say we really connected,u know,and i knew things about him without him even telling me..it was perfect..after a while he asked to feel how it was kissing a girl with a tongue-ring and before i knew it,we were kissing on his bed but i stopped him and decided to go home..a day later i visited him again and thats the night we had it.i kinda feel bad now?!
2007-03-04 23:53:28 · 11 answers · asked by Michelle M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you enjoyed it at the time, and you weren't hurting other people obviously, you shouldn't feel bad about it.
2007-03-04 23:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by §ðmê†hïñg Wï¢kêÐ †hï§ Wå¥ Çðmê§ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eh, I don't suppose that's so bad. I mean, the situation IS a little bit sketchy, and I suggest you be careful, but if you're really interested in him and he's on the same page, I honestly don't think it's a big deal that you had sex. I mean, it's not like you were drunk and just decided to screw him or whatever, as that would be a different scenario. I think you're pretty much in the clear, as long as you're not going to use him as a sort of **** buddy and he's expecting more.
2007-03-05 00:11:52 · answer #2 · answered by filledesarcenciel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the problem with people, you want something, you have it and then feel bad later. Just ask yourself why you feel bad. Is it because you are so used to having problems?
2007-03-05 00:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by loxzibit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh! why are you feeling bad? Please don't do this to yourself! Be kind to your body and everything else. Your mind and feelings decided to do it at the time and you should not be ashamed of it. If you did not enjoy it so what. Get on with your beautiful life without any feeling of guilt.
2007-03-05 00:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by 1967 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunny a week isn't even enough time to find out if a person has a drug addiction. Before you ruin your image you need to slow down. and i hope ... i really hope that you used protection. Just because people are nice you shoudln't really give it up to them. set you standards higher. and always remember that you have to respect yourself before people respect you.
2007-03-05 00:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably doesn't feel bad... sounds like that was what he was working up to in the first place.
2007-03-05 00:07:34 · answer #6 · answered by beebee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls respect yourselves... really get to know someone before you give them the keys to your goods..... we all know Men want it;however,make them earn it ,respect you,want you,make it intense,memorable and they will come knocking again. if you feel bad about it was it worth it and your dignity? has he called you ,does he look for you,where is he.........
2007-03-05 00:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl don't feel BAD if it want good then feel BAD but do u
2007-03-05 00:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok....as long as he used protection
2007-03-05 00:00:46 · answer #9 · answered by snehesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who care it
2007-03-04 23:56:06 · answer #10 · answered by keral 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋