I barely even know her. Besides the fact I'm in college, and her prom during the weekend before finals. She lives two hours away. And I'm pretty sure she's obsessed with me. I really don't know what to do, or tell her. Does anyone have some advice?
2007-03-04 23:10:58 · 12 answers · asked by Seen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her no as nicely and as clearly as you can. Don't make it a long, drawn-out thing. Just firmly say you can't make it because of any of those reasons you've listed above (the two-hour drive during finals is enough).
This is one of those situations where it's inevitable that her feelings will get a little hurt. But she'll be fine and she'll move on.
2007-03-04 23:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Gwendolyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes making others happy makes alot of difference.
What if you were her shoes think about it.
Share abit and in return you get lots,if nothing much then the cheering smile you will bring on her face would be worth a million.
2007-03-04 23:14:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dipi s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you go to the prom with someone you like and you have finals and is two hours away? if yes tell her your not interest and you think she is beautiful but she is not for you.
this way you cover yourself for future reference, she wont call you and ask to go to her sister wedding.
and if no. then tell her you have finals, but thank your flater.
2007-03-04 23:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is just a matter of choices and options. What else would you do that night? Do you enjoy her company? Might you make a new friend?
Or would you be misleading her and cause yourself unexpected drama?
2007-03-04 23:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by hebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you have to much going on that week and then lay low as not to be seen crusin town that nite
2007-03-04 23:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by workin_man66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you're crammin' for Finals. And that you need a good GPA.
2007-03-04 23:20:04 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to let her down gently. Make excuses but don't sound too desperate to get rid of her.
You could say.. 'hey listen, i thought you & me were going together, but as things turn out, there's this girl who came along..''
Anyhoo, best of luck!
2007-03-04 23:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her down easy and tell her you have finals and that's more important.
2007-03-04 23:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by step b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her about the finals let her down easily do not be an a&& about it.
2007-03-04 23:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by toophatboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a Chill pill...May be she is just intending to be ur Friend.
2007-03-04 23:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋