im planning on breaking it off with my boyfriend of 18months anyway, but i want to go with his friend. we've kissed but he doesnt think we should be together seeing as my boyfriend is his mate. do you think i can convince him, he likes me but my soon-to-be ex is getting in the way!
2007-03-04 23:05:52 · 23 answers · asked by missyemma02 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, firstly finish with your boyfriend, as you obviously don't love him, and then take it from there.
You need to decide whether you will tell your boyfriend the reason for the split. You could ruin a great friendship here, so check if this other guy is really into you, or just looking for a bit of fun.
2007-03-04 23:10:13 · answer #1 · answered by PrettyKitty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know love clouds the mind but you are being a b1tch if you do this. Your "soon-to-be-ex is getting in the way?? Poor you.
Break up with ur bf & later down the line whilst things have settled down & he is over you, THEN talk to his friend about you two maybe seeing each other. Don't be insensitive to your current bf but break up with him now.
If anything is meant to happen with u & his friend, it will. If it isn't meant to be, it wont happen, but if it IS to happen, it will take time.
2007-03-04 23:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by Meeeee! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard one, I think you should definitely break up with your boyfriend, And I would leave it for a wee while before going out with his friend, wouldn,t like to be in your shoes but good luck anyway
2007-03-04 23:10:22 · answer #3 · answered by Janet C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all break up with your boyfriend before doing anything with his mate.
your boyfriend is not in the way - he is just an innocent party to a girlfriend with no morals so she thinks its ok to get off with his pals
2007-03-04 23:09:22 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Claire - Hates Bigotry 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if he likes you and you like him go for it,it's up to them how they deal with it, but i say don't let any think go in this world that you want, because you might kick your self if you do.if there best mates your boy friend will get over it,just be honest with your soon to be x and things will be OK....
2007-03-04 23:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by missnicedell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with your boyfriend, as you are obvously looking elsewhere and not committed. However, you should find a new guy, and not go out with your boyfriends friend. That is a no no.
2007-03-04 23:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to be aware of what makes you tick. You are a woman who needs to be stimulated and excited. Your attention was drawn to the other man because you already had your first man. Once you get him you will be drawn to someone else. If you are going to keep up this kind of behaviour then you will be ruining relationships every way you turn. I suggest you accept your lot in life as a relationship screw up and screw up their friendship. You will be doing it for ever now.
2007-03-04 23:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Maybe... but you're playing with fire when you start getting inbetween friend's. He could start to blaming you for losing his best friend if it doesn't work out for you two in the long run. I would let him make all the advances. Then if it doesn't work out he has only himself to blame.
2007-03-04 23:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by beebee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
does the mate have feelings for you,
if so you should get together because nothing can stand in the way of true love
2007-03-04 23:12:04 · answer #9 · answered by kellygreatrex 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Break up now and see if his mate is really interested. At least he has ethics!
2007-03-04 23:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by desertflower 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋