When I say "new aspects" I mean something considered quite taboo. I am straight. I want to fulfill a fantasy of mine that requires the use of my um back end..anyone got any advice on how to be clean, relax and have fun with it?
2007-03-04 22:55:29 · 5 answers · asked by jennifer t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all... if you're new at this, let him start with LOTS of lube KY Jelly is best. Then I can't stress enough CONDOM...CONDOM...CONDOM! Even on his finger. Start off with one finger, and gently move it around until you're comfortable. Then go for two fingers....again till your comfortable....and so on until he's able to easily insert 3 fingers. I can't stress enough the importance of condoms especially with anal sex. When you feel you are ready... use LOTS and LOTS of lube at first to make it easier. Make sure you tell him as soon as you say STOP, he MUST stop at once and remove himself. You don't want to force him inside, and tear your muscles. Keep trying until you get it, and eventually, you will. Good luck
2007-03-04 23:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie,
I'd say first, relax,be with the one you want. take it slow.
and remember when a person explores their fantasy, it's really about you! self satisfaction,personal.I think thats what sexual
feelings are about,to open up ,relax enjoy. hey ya might like it
and explore other personal fantasies!
2007-03-05 00:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by cookie69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't use same scoop in 2 different flavors of ice cream.
2007-03-04 23:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I wouldn't
2007-03-04 23:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by 1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice... don't do it...!
2007-03-04 23:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Fox Arab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋