i lthink i love this guy who takes drugs. he has been hiding it from me, should i get out before to late. its his eyes, they are blue and are beautiful, is it lust? please help . worried greeneyes1@yahoo.co.uk
2007-03-04 22:20:54 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
skin up..
2007-03-04 22:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by "THE WISE ONE" 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on what kind of drugs he is taking, if he smoking gange, then its not a massive problem just talk it through with him and ask him to cut down, if it is a more serious addictive drug then you need to chat with him in a harsher tone, and let him know that you are there to support and help him in anyway he needs (that is if you really do love him and are prepared to help him) if you do need or want a chat email me adam_carver100885@yahoo.co.uk, i know where your coming from i used to be a heroin addict and now im a drugs councillor! things aren't all ways destined to end up as bad as most people think! No situation is un changeable!
2007-03-04 22:37:12 · answer #2 · answered by Adam C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really despair at how high and mighty some people get on drugs on this site. I wud be willin to bet a lot that many of u have had very little contact or experience with drugs and your basing your condemnations of "run for your life, before the drugs suck you in to" on what you've seen on tv and read in the media. It's a bit daft.
First of all Greeneyes, what is this lad taking, cuz that wud be very helpful. Is it cannabis, LSD, Speed, XTC, Cocaine or the likes of Heroine, Crystal Meth or Crack?
second, how often is he taking drugs, where is he taking drugs, with whom. Is he in school, does he have a job? Is he violent, have you noticed a deterioration or change in his personality. Has he pressured you to indulge. We need to know these things before anyone flies off the handle and tells you to cut "this loser/scum of the earth/leech/no better than dirt criminal" out of your life.
2007-03-04 22:58:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know yourself if its lust or love.
Those beautiful blue eyes wont be so gorgeous after years of being hooked on drugs.
I think if hes not willing to try and come off the stuff then you should move on.
You dont want him bringing you down with him.
And theres always another bus comes 10 minutes l8r x
2007-03-04 22:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by Lorraine D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this guy comes in to your relationship with seriously heavy baggage and a lot of problems. Regardless of his looks, do you really envisage him as a future mate, husband, father of your baby?
Sorry, but you're a better woman than me if you want to take on a drug addict as a boyfriend. I think you can do better for himself. Remember, drugs are a CHOICE - no-one forced him to take them, he's chosen himself. And if he is stupid enough to make bad choices like that now, what bad judgements would he inflict on you as a couple.
You don't need the problems. Let him find another Florence Nightingale to take care of him and be dragged down.
2007-03-04 22:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends what drugs, if he is smoking a bit of pot to relax or have a giggle with his mates, it is not to bad, if on the other hand he is a smack head run for the hills and check your purse before he goes.
Have you tried talking to him about his drug taking it might be to cover up anxiety's he has and your understanding relationship might help him to kick the habit.
What ever happens I wish you the best off luck!
2007-03-04 22:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by Loader2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean when you say 'he takes drugs'?
Are we talking habitually every day? Then yes that can be a major problem largely because taking stuff everyday will affect your personality not to mention your wallet and ability to study/work. Do you want ot go out with someone who has paranoia, mood swings, can't afford ot pay their bills, 'borrows' money?
Or are we talking about occassionally at the weekend? Most of my friends occassionally take drugs, they can afford to, it doesn't do too much harm and can be great fun in moderation. Chill out.
2007-03-04 22:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what drug he is on, but what ever, it takes a long time and a lot of money to feed this habit. If he does not want to help him self to give up and he is happy with what he is doing. No one can help him. If you want to give up say 5 years of your life helping him then get use to it or don't start anything. Let some one else try.
2007-03-04 22:36:39 · answer #8 · answered by joel_antone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think you should get out before you really do fall in love with him, although how anyone can fall in love with a drug addict I don,t know as they all think only of themselves and there habit always come first. Get out while you can good luck hope you meet someone nice
2007-03-04 23:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by Janet C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that...my best advice to you is get away from him as fast as you can. Yes, he'll end up in prison, rehab, etc...
If he really needs his drugs, he'll use you for money (steal from you or hock your things)-he'll tell you he loves you when he's not using then when he is using he'll turn into a moron. It's not worth it-be better than he is!
2007-03-05 07:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by rosebud06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone that is on drugs is no good they will just bring you down so stay away from him before you get hooked on drugs and that will happen because he will influence you
2007-03-04 22:27:23 · answer #11 · answered by Denny O 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋