My best friend and a guy r going on.That guy is a very good friend of mine and stays in my bulding.We always hang around together.Some of my friends have gone and complained to my best friend that i am trying to snatch the guy from my best friend.But it is nothing like that.My best friend has spoken to me about this and she said that she trusts me and her bf both and she has no problem.But still i think she has a problem. what should i do?????
2007-03-04 22:14:14 · 16 answers · asked by ketki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have nothing to worry if she has told you she trusts you and her bf. However, just be as you are. And wait till she really blows it to you on what she thinks, and then probably you can tell her that you thought she trusted you, and that you have nothing going on...and then talking, that is, the three of you talking about this issue before someone else blows it up into out of proportions you could never imagine, it would help to keep away those pple who really are trying to break your relationship with your freinds.
2007-03-04 22:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is insecure you have to reassure her. But in the long run if she does not trust you or her boyfriend then why would she want to go on and be friends ... simply state that ...
As far as her BF goes you have been friends, so stay friends, just assure her that that is all there is ... She should be talking to him also ...
regards join
2007-03-05 06:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by join_my_world_of_ignore 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should meet her again with her bf n clear everything n try ur best level to stay away from her bf to avoid further tensions
Gud luck !!!
2007-03-05 06:23:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
I think u all 3 can sit together and clarify everything with one other so there wont be any misunderstanding between u all in future...
2007-03-05 06:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by Tejash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should understand how she feels most girls get jealous when their b/f's have friends that are girls. Its just the way women are theres something about women that makes other women feel insecure especially if you are prettier than she is or have something she doesn't.
2007-03-05 06:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Robin M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
if you think you are doing right behaviour with them. then behave like that with clear mind. do not try to change yourself without any mistake that create big problem.
Also talk with both.
best luck!
2007-03-05 07:31:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should stay clear of this guy while he is seeing your best friend. It is not worth the trauma.
2007-03-05 06:18:41 · answer #7 · answered by Movielota 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are doing nothing wrong then you don't need to change or do anything differently.
2007-03-05 07:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by lisateric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ketki,
i think you are worried about your friend.If she is your best friend she should believe you. If you think she does not believe yoy than you slowly avoid her and his boyfriend. otherwise you may loose peace of mind because of them. Make friends with those who trust you ,you better avoid them both slowly. you think about yourself and about those who think about you.Bye take care see you dear.
2007-03-05 06:24:37 · answer #9 · answered by gayathri j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just try not to hang with him that much. its not nice to be the gf of someone who spends more time with his friend than u. maybe if it happens to u u'll understand
2007-03-05 06:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by SA Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋