Why is somone having spent time as or is a nude model/lap dancer etc a bad example as not hurting anyone?

Question

People mention a bad example, no morals...


But according to the christian god for example.


Do to others as you would have them do unto you

Or the Pagan one

As long as you harm none do as you will.


Well posing topless, nude, being a astonishly well paid pole dancer
(ie fit, eating well, exercising, earning £800 a night = to a house in two yours and no mortage of debt, making buck, 18 and 21s birthdays memorable and fun, and comforting lonley people)

Besides dancing is fun and I like music.


All are sex based but whats wrong with consentual sexaul activity?


If your husbands did not think you had nice breats and want to kiss and feel you up... you would not have gotton close, fell in love, gotton married, and be parents of kids you love.

You would be mates thats all.

So I really dont get it as according to the guidlines above to be a bad example or be immoral you have to be a

bully, bitchy, nasty, mean, negligent to others safety, a cheat

Slooppy at your work, lasy, irresponsible with drink or drugs ie turning up late and hung over or drink driving etc...


Basically something harmful to others.


Pole dancers aint dumb. Many are students who will lweave uni not with £50,000 in debt but probable a few £100,000 up or say little work, lots of study, lots of travelling and activities and no debt problems, eating helathy and living somewhere secure.

Was jealous the girls when travelling got the easy work that was well paid or all the wet t shirt type competitions to win boat cruises etc.

Not fair.

As for respect...


I respect genuine, kind, fun, open minded, cult free, type people


Not bullys, holier then though, nasty types


No fail to see anyreaon not to respect somoen...


As for the kids of say a teacher who was involded


Primary pupils whould not give a toss, no know what the fuss was about only that they were loosing their favourite teachers as mean parents and head took them away.

Its like I new a barmaid training to be a teacher... She entersed some porn mag competiton and won and was in the magazine and got 2/3 of stdent debt wrtten off.

Plus I have worked with people like those who did the lovers guide and playboy.

They were very nice people who looked after their staff and look at people like Peter String fellow if in the UK... (who now has a male stripper night for the girls I beleive)...


Not so much perve more over grown horny teenage guy and to all intents a nice person.


Teenager and twenties are all about experessing sexaulity as single, flirting and infeleuncing opposite sex... its called being single its not immoral, neither is being gay.

Even if say a male teacher goes to lapdance clubs a lot... Prob just lonly and crap at chatting up.


And Ill bet hes freidns with someon of the girls like people are friends with a barmaid.

And as for those clubs with wet t shirt, pole dance, full monty competitons...


Very nice freindly crowd, vertually o if any attiude, very responsible management in terms of security who looked after the area outside the club or ran a minibus service for free to help people get home safe.

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Unfortunately most of these 'girls' are being exploited by gangsters and pimps, or need to work to feed a habit.


Actually no... common misconseption.


You are taking about the sweat shop chinese prisoner slaves who make trainers, the child labourors in football factories, the child slaves making choclate, or seen 'Blood Diamond' side of things.

Ie the bully boys only try all that as the girls can earn a fortune and can be bullied like a proection racket.


its nothing to do with the sex bit.


As said you have many nice companies...

You just need proper regulation, policing, and unions to drive the scumbags out so the girls get their own money and remain in control

Much like getting the gags out of the diamond industry

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ALSO HOW MANY PULLED THEIR NOW HUSBAND WITH SEXY CLOTHES OR SUNBATHED TOPLESS.


AND HOW HONESTLY DID YOU BEHAVE AS TEENAGERS?


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ALSO BIT OF COMMON SENSE.


A profession dancer makes a good PE teacher


A professional model or even porn star makes for a good photography and media studies teacher.


Plus with their background they are good for teacher sex ed or answering all the questions kids may pose and a ex male porn star could certaibnly help the boys havign a guy to talk to who can point otu what they do in the movies is different to waht you so with your girlfriend...

Ie more intimate, cuddles, hugs and lovely stuff and respect

Was refering to the teachers or students who get sacked or expelled for this... where I would want to batter the head /givenors, complainig parents into apologising, returning teacher and promising the school not to do such things again

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R lolly.


Trafficed people be they working in mines as slaves or in a brothel are both slaves... tis not the sexaul eliment its that they are being controlled , likewise swaet shops.


Im refering to fully consentual, where say the girl had lots of fun posing and dancing, and her boss was nice, possibly a woman aor camp as christmas gay or say Stringfellow etc.


Most of the guys there are just lonley

Answer 1

I think you're rambling.
But if you want to know, there is nothing wrong with consensual sexual activity- provided nobody lies about it.

And "As long as you harm none do as you will" is Wiccan, not Pagan. I do not follow that law.

My law is much more complicated.
To lie is bad. To punch someone in the face, not so bad. Unless they're smaller than you.

Answer 2

Nothing wrong with consensual sex/lapdancing etc. As long as it's consensual. I wouldn't go to a club like that tho. Don't wanna support the industry. People who work in rescuing trafficked women and children know that lap dancing clubs are often used as fronts for trafficking. A 'trafficked' woman or child is kidnapped or lured with the promise of a job then confined, possibly drugged, beaten and raped until she's all but given up the will to live. By the time she's made it to a brothel or lap dancing club she's grateful to do anything that stops her captors from becoming angry.

If you're gonna support brothels/lap or pole dancing clubs please be sure the women there are voluntarily there. Sadly it's almost impossible to tell. They may look like they wanna be there but that's the price they pay not to be further abused when they're back in their rooms.

On the other hand if it's a woman who decided to do it and is making a good living from it fair play to her, but I'll get mine where I'm sure it isn't supporting someone hurting women n kids.

Answer 3

If its as you say than it sounds idyllic.

Unfortunately most of these 'girls' are being exploited by gangsters and pimps, or need to work to feed a habit.

You rage against people in cults yet champion people who are 'open minded'. Its the open minded who cults target, because they do not use scepticism.

'Come worship the galactic emperor Xenu who burnt people in volcanoes millions of years ago'
Well I have an open mind, I will have some of that. Where do I pay the money?

Answer 4

i dont think that there is anything wrong with any of these things but as women y should we have to do these things to make good money where r all the male lap dancing clubs all we get are a few not so great strippers in some grubby old social club good luck to anyone that can make money from their assets

Answer 5

A lot of people are afraid of the unknown. And I think that adults just want to make sure that such activities are "censored," meaning that minors (children) should not be exposed to illicit activities. Other than that, there is nothing really "wrong" with it. It's just a matter of choice.

Answer 6

I dont think they are a bad example - I think its a very good way of making a lot of money and would be tempted myself to do it but I know that my boyfriend would get really jealous. We could do with the money honestly

Answer 7

it's called promiscuity, and this is in the bible as being wrong, to tempt other is also wrong. i agree it would be nice to make that kind of money, if you are that kind of person who doesn't mind taking your clothes off for money and having hundreds of guys looking at your body every night. i love my body and think I'm in pretty good shape, but that doesn't mean that i want to show it to the world. i save that for my fiance, and him only. morals means to have respect for yourself, and people who do this have no morals, or just feel that this is the end of the line for them and they have nothing else they can do to make money.
if they are that desperate for money why not invest in some education to ensure that you will have a good paying job, and not be answering to some pimp named Pedro who rewards good lap dances with crack.

Answer 8

To be a good example one needs to be in line with a standard of conduct. Sometimes that means not having as much fun as before.

Answer 9

It never fails to amaze me how narrow minded people can be,go to most of the beaches across Europe and you will see bare breasts and more and yet someone who earns a living from showing their body is frowned upon.

Answer 10

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