i have been dating this guy for six months now but hadnt slept with him then i finnally agreed to sleep with cos i was sure he really loved me, he really showed how he loved me in so many ways but i was fooled.the next day after sleeping with me he dumped me, now i feel so bad and i wish to pay him back in his own coin but how do i go about it? he doesnt call me and doesnt take my calls.
2007-03-04 21:46:21 · 12 answers · asked by unique m's queen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Vindictiveness never pays.
Consider this a valuable lesson and don't make the same mistake again. Anything you do will make you the lesser person - no matter the justification, revenge is an ugly thing.
Let it go!
2007-03-12 18:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by pepper 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont. You forget about him, change the way you look, change your clothing style, change your hair style. Go find new freinds. Forget all about him and his freinds. When he sees you changed and improved yourself for a new guy, and that you no longer hurt over him ( Even if you do, but he doesnt need to know that) And that your happy with your life even though he went out with last week's trash. Dont call him, When he calls go ahead and answer. But act like your busy, get distracted. Act uninterested in what he has to say. When he gets upset or asks why you dont call. Give him an excuse, and the more petty the thing is thats keeping you busy the better. Dont be ashamed to say you have been playing a video game for hours on end if you cant come up with something better at the moment. If you tell him your hanging out with another guy, make sure its somebody he knows. While your at it, try to find some excuse to get off the phone before hes done talking. Make sure you let him know that you give your pet mouse more interest then him. Do anything you can to make sure he knows that he is absoliutely boring to you.
Nothing will hurt his ego more.
2007-03-05 05:55:48 · answer #2 · answered by ookami_douketsu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is that really what happened?
If a guy invests 6 months in a girl to get her in bed once, why would he then dump her immediately unless he had no interest in having sex with her a second time?
Maybe he just found the whole thing to be a terribly disappointing experience.
2007-03-05 08:00:15 · answer #3 · answered by Curt Monash 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time and energy on him. Move forward in your life and show him what he missed by acting like as ***. Play off any thing he says and don't give him the satifacation of hurting you again. Show him how mature adults handle situations, he is being an *** and it trying to one up his buddies. Let your other girls friends know what his intentions are and he will be luck to have a girl even notice him. Let any and every girl you know what he is trying to do, he is trying to see how many girls he can have sex with, and then brag about it to his buddies.
2007-03-13 04:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by 1TON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He dumped you after you gave him what he figured he'd get soner or later , so the heck with him .
Move on , he's not worth it . There is someone else out there for you that will care about you .Half the guys in the Universe are like that . One thing for a guy , another thing for a girl .Sad part is guys move on ,but its the girl that deals with it all .
2007-03-05 05:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by dolores h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why bother? You'd only be risking your own safety and freedom by trying to stoop to the level of someone you don't think very much of anyway. Just let it go and move on...somewhere out there is a guy for you; try working on finding him and leave the losers of the world behind.
2007-03-05 05:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
best payback is to forget he exists and KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON STUPID...now you have learned the most important lesson when it comes to guys...they only want your power..and that starts with a p also...
a man will wait till the end of time and do whatever it takes to put his P in a womans' V ...then NEXT!
... and people are still trying to figure this out after 2000 years..LOL
2007-03-13 05:43:47 · answer #7 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get even is to get over him and not let him think that he hurt you. Don't call him ever again. And, do pick up the phone if he calls and act as though you hadn't noticed he hasn't called and as though you are busy at the moment. Tell him you'll call him back later and then don't call him. It will wilt his ego some.
2007-03-05 05:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
revenge is a sign of spiritual decay. people hurt other people.. it's part of life and the risk you take for opening up. if you give in to hatred and revenge then instead of a caring person then you'll have become the very thing you despise. Don't do it. let it go. breaaaaathe. there is still beauty in the world, don't let one moron make you so angry that you give in to the baser emotions.
2007-03-05 05:52:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kos Kesh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey lil sister, Been there, done that. Take it as one of life's lessons. Its okay to be angry, but don't be vindictive. You have to pray for some people. Know your worth and that you don't have to sleep with anyone to prove your love.
Some people will disagree with me, but you're better off by letting your heart heal and not paying him back. Don't stoop to his level.
2007-03-05 05:52:07 · answer #10 · answered by curlygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋