somedays back..my grandma came into my dreams..she died of a mental condition..so she was locking me in the loo in my dream...after some days...i got into trouble with my friends..and one guyfrend slapped me(am a girl)..and threw me on the ground n humilated me..(for no fault of mine)..now iam in total depression..i feel like jumping off the floor..i dont know what to do...i jus need to talk to my grandmom..i need her..she loved me more than anything...will she come if i ask her?and how do i call her..am in desperate need of help...plz guys..advice
2007-03-04 21:39:54 · 11 answers · asked by ♥panicqueen♥ 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
That's crazy. Sometimes I have dreams of my grandmom trying to hit me! Or talk to me telling me how angry she is about some things that happened.
She loved me very much too, and it scares me whenever she comes to me in my dreams. I can't sleep for days because I'm scared of what she's going to do or say to me.
I'm the only one in my family that has had dreams about her.
I hope you have luck on your question, and I hope things get better for you.
2007-03-04 21:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that you've had some traumatic experiences that are very unfortunate. I hope that you can overcome this.
I can see that you love your grandmother. There is nothing wrong with that. And It sounds like you know people that are really not your friends, but I am only getting your side of the story. You seem unstable, and unstable people sometimes go overboard and cause others to go to extremes by offending them.
Now your Grandmom is gone now. But I tell you what; If she loved you as much as you love her, wouldn't she want you to go on, be happy, and not be unsettled in your mind? If so, honor that. If you are taking drugs, stop it. If you are abusing anything, then that's why you are so deperate.
I used to be desperate. But I had nothing to lose then, and so I decide to give God a try. That worked for me. It wasn't any one else who could do anything about my condition. But trusting in God through Jesus Christ was a successful attempt at escaping my distress.
You can e-mail me if you want to talk about anything, okay? ( :
2007-03-05 06:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well it depends on you,if you really want to get in touch with her first put some flowers on her grave.To you it may be nothing,but for her it's like showing her that where ever she is you will always love her.Then for about a week concentrate on what you what to dream of,she might hear you cause you're calling her but you must have good intentions otherwise she will never come .Do as i tell you but please remmember to focus real hard but by relaxing your mind you don't have to do anything superficial.It is also important that you light up a white candle and some insants at night and pray a little just to make her atmophere more pleasent.
2007-03-05 06:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by max 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
hi, u have got a lot of depression abt ur Grandma's death. it is usual but u must not be so tensed. dreams are of three kinds:1) when u think and sleep abt something.,2)it is from God,3) or else from devil.
u might be thinking abt her always that is why she is coming in ur dreams in a terrific way. when a person dies he is transferred to another world, u cannot call back a person. once he is dead no one can again raise him except almighty God. stop thinking abt talking to her. just try to forget her and pray for her that God may forgive her sins and try to medidate and pray to God for peace. inshaAllah if God wills he will help u in getting relief. Aaamen
2007-03-05 05:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by moon l 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am going to be quite honest with you in regards to what i know about spirit
we cant call them , we can ask they come and we can hope they hear us at that time
but sometimes they want us to sort out our own problems , they wont interfere with our free will , they want us to be strong and learn from life
and then sometimes afterwards they will come and say .... well done
now i am unsure of your age but if you are over 18 you could perhaps go to a spiritualist church and there should be a medium working their each night
you can watch them work during the service and you never know gran may come
you can also book an appointment with them if you feel you like their work
but above all else
if this depression gets worse or does not go away .... see your doctors sweetie ok xx
2007-03-05 05:45:00 · answer #5 · answered by Peace 7 · 2⤊ 5⤋
you need to stand up for u girl.. you cant ask for your grandma everytime you get upset. your friends have no rights to hit u or humilate you specially when it is not your fault. and it they do then they are not your friends. make good friend who respect you for what you are and be happy with it. A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good; adn an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart brings forth evil. so be in good friends.
2007-03-05 06:10:45 · answer #6 · answered by sujatha v 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I am so sorry for Your loss,and Your recent problem.There is no way to Grandmother,I am sorry,dreams are dreams.Please see
a doctor,I wish You well.
2007-03-05 06:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by gwhiz1052 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ask God to give her a message. She can't come to you, but one day you'll join her.
2007-03-05 05:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by Malcolm 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
There is no possible way of that. The dead cannot hear us and to talk to them is a form of necromancy. Anyone who tells you that you can communicate to spirits is lying to you. Read your Bible. Spirits are nothing more than fallen angels, aka demons. Here is a website that will tell you the truth.
http://www.jesus-is-savior.com
2007-03-05 05:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Dakota Lynn Takes Gun 6 · 1⤊ 7⤋
Go to Jesus and say Jesus forgive my sins and come into my heart and you will get your answer O.K.
2007-03-05 05:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋