I mean before you're married.
i dont understand it. ilove my girlfriend, and would do anything for her
but sometimes i get sick of her,. or shes not there so i want to get with another girl for the night
i wont talk to the girl after, and we're both young her 18 me 22.
so whats the big deal?
when i'm married i will stop.
2007-03-04 21:33:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is EXTREMELY hot, so it's not like i need something hotter
i just like the chase, and now after 7 months shes too whipped..
2007-03-04 21:34:53 · update #1
It's absurd and totally uncool to think that you can trick a woman into marrying you under false pretenses. Your current GF is obviously not the right one for you because the right one will be someone you would never want to hurt or trick that way. Look up the word "cheat" in the dictionary. Yes, it really is that bad. Would you mind if your GF cheated on you before you were married? Do you really think you can get a woman you cheat on to marry you and be content with you?
2007-03-04 21:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you asked, here it is: If you verbally agreed to be mutually exclusive with your girlfriend, you're breaking a trust. If you've ever been betrayed by a close friend or relative, you have some small idea how this feels to the injured party.
If you really want to hone your skills and get the thrill of the chase, why don't you manipulate her into agreeing with you getting some on the side, or even better yet: talk her into a threesome...that's when you've got real game, champ! Right now, you're just another clown blowing a good thing for a load...
2007-03-05 05:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is bad-period. How would you feel if your gf cheated on you like you do with her? What if you married her and then discovered she is acting like you are? Would you want to stay with her? You both are young and have not figured out what you need and what is important to you. A hot chick is all it takes for you right now, but later on you will find that you need different things from a girl. If you cheat, you will not find happiness in your life. There will always be something missing. When you find the right girl, you won't have the need or desire to cheat. Until then, nothing will change, you will just pick up a hot girl on the side.
2007-03-05 06:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Martin O 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DONT GET MARRÄ°ED you will break a heart and spoil the life of a women and maybe little innocent kids. get cured from a psychiatrist. be a normal person and have a normal life.
if you keep on this way : you will get aids or other dangerous thinks and be a tool to spread it and even you may give it to your wife and kids
you will loose selfrespect oneday ( when you will be mature enough)
and others will not respect too.
and you will loose ( you have already lost )the chance to have first sex with the love of your life
if you believe in heaven you will loose that too
by the way is there anyname for a boys like you ? for example you call girls whore if they do what you do?
2007-03-05 05:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by zubeyde 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating generally means that you are not fully satisfied with your current partner or you feel that something is missing in the relationship. If you were completely in love and happy within your relationship, then why would you jeopardize all that you have for a five-minute fling with the girl next door?
When men cheat, it basically means that they are looking for something their girlfriend or wife is not providing. Often times, it comes down to sex.
2007-03-05 05:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by mother hen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You won't stop when you're married, you're just saying that to make yourself feel better. You'll make a huge effort at first and then go, what the ****, I'm sick of her.
The big deal is, dating is trial marriage. If you ever want to marry someone, you have to be real with her, because if you can't be real when you're dating her, you're not worthy to marry her. (and she'd be stupid to waste her time dating you anyway)
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2007-03-05 05:37:58 · answer #6 · answered by kenniemcooper 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You are setting patterns for later life of lying and rationalizing bad decision making and infidelity. You are risking her health and your relationship. You won't stop when you are married. You are just kidding yourself.
If you want to see other people, then be honest so she can play the field too.
2007-03-05 05:38:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
you can date as many people as you want (at once) before you are married. you just have to be completely honest about everything.
you have to draw the line at being dishonest or giving your GF the false impression that you are only dating her.
you guys should have a talk and you should tell her that you want to see other girls. and she should see other guys, too, she is young.
2007-03-05 05:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Personally, if your partner would be hurt over it, it is bad. If you don't want to worry about cheating, you should just casually date. That way you are not going to be cheating on anyone and get what you want. Just stay as protected as possible.
2007-03-05 05:42:37 · answer #9 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
too whipped? maybe you don't deserve to be with anybody. just keep chasing girls every night for the rest of your life.
2007-03-05 05:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by answer! this 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋