She denied it with all her heart all this things happened last year around July and August. She admitted to it February this year. She sworn with her parents and son that she won't do it again. I also saw her number on my other friend's phone and she denied giving it to him. Wat should I do.? PLIS HELP ME I LOVE HER SO MUCH
2007-03-04 21:31:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to listen to your gut feeling. You know if somthing doesn't feel right. And, if she is cheating again after cheating and lying about it and being forgiven once before, she will not change for you. You will sit on the edge of your seat worrying about it for as long as you continue to pretend she is your girlfriend. If she's cheating, she is not being in an exclusive relationship with you, which means she is not really your girlfriend, you're both just pretending you're together.
2007-03-04 21:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you love her but i will say this that even when she said she wouldnt do it again she will and i am not some scorned gal who can say that once a cheater always a cheater but if she really had all this going and you didnt see it you are blinded by what you think is love and need to take a step back and look at things people whom are on the out side looking in are more appt to seeing what you dont so if your friends are seeing something that you are not really look and i will say that if you really want it to work you must also take into concideration that a relationship is a two sided deal and even if you truely love her with all your heart she may not feel the same i mean if she did then why did she do this ask her more about it like what did you go looking for that you were not getting from me good luck hun but my overall answer would be to just cut your losses and try again with someone new you deserve to be happy
2007-03-04 21:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by hakaes24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. Unfortunately she will cheat again. This is a habit that she learned and she is addicted to it.
Only when she grows up and realizes that this is not acceptable behaviour will she change ( not for you unfortunately). Her heart felt denial and admittance only reaffirmed that conclusion.
Swearing to her parents (as if she never lied before) and son does not guarantee she will not do it again.
She is fooling around probably as we are writing about it. If I were you, I would cut her loose. Short term pain for long term gain of the freedom of worrying about her and if she loves only you will help you in the long run.
Sorry you have to go through this. Good luck with this.
2007-03-04 21:58:15 · answer #3 · answered by Randy P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
History repeats itself. She cheated once and promised not to do it again. Then cheated again. Let her go and move on if you really want to be done with this. I know, it happened to me too. It is not worth the pain, frustration and agony. It will consume you and your quality of life will suffer. Move on and let some other guy deal with her. You deserve better and can find it. Don't keep going down the same path of unhappiness. Life and love are not easy or fair, but you can be strong and move on toward a much happier time.
2007-03-04 22:10:10 · answer #4 · answered by Martin O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sure must be a very nice guy to put up with that. Are you even sure that you love her that much to put up with lies? Think about it. Keep a close eye on her. Check if she's doing something suspicious and out of the ordinary. If you love her so much that you're willing to stay with her you've got to talk to her for a very loooong time. Be straight with her. Go straight to the point. Ask her why she even did it the first time. Does she even love you? Or is it an unrequited love? Because if it is, I suggest that you leave her.
2007-03-04 21:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Sapph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could hire a Private Eye (P.I). They'll tell you if what you think is true. If she is cheating, dump her, if not, then you're in the clear. Also, if she has a son, then dates you, you're could be a sucker. She knows that all the guys she really dates, are "bad boys" and aren't responsible enough to take care of her and her son in the long run. You should listen to Tom Lykis, he's very smart. Go to www.blowmeuptom.com to check his stuff out.
2007-03-04 21:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by Joshu@ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although you love her, you cannot be blind.The facts are there,open your eyes. If you have known your friend, that mysteriously has her number on his phone,question him,and trust him,for it seems you cannot trust the one you love. She has already admitted to cheating to you, if you continue being with you will only get hurt more. I believe she has already realized you trust her blindingly,that she can do anything,and will most likely continue to do so. Please take my advice, go take a walk and clear your thoughts realize you need to stop seeing her, and get over her.It will not be easy, but in the end you won't be hurt anymore....
2007-03-04 21:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by curious1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Develop the qualities she is looking for.
Pay attention to your looks and style.
Work on your self-confidence and self-esteem.
Don’t get paranoid and hire a private investigator or start monitoring her. Remember if a woman wants to cheat, there is no way to stop her.
2007-03-04 21:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by mother hen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love her but shes a useless person so get an nice evidence that shes cheating on u then dump her there are so many fish in the sea , go and get more than her get the 1 that will love u and only u
2007-03-04 21:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless your over 25, you shouldn't even have a girlfriend. You should be dating as many women as you can.
"and son" - What does this mean? Is she a single mother? If so, DROP HER NOW! Never date single mothers!
2007-03-04 21:35:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋