I have very strong feelings for my co worker, we are both 20. When I first started working at fashion store, I totally fell in love with him at first sight but I was too shy to tell him that. He is the one who made the first step! He was calling me, texting me and asking me out! He would always tell me how beautiful I am (that would drive me crazy) but I wasn't sure if I am ready to let him in my life cuz I had a boyfriend.
But knowing that he likes me made me the happiest person ever, you have no idea how good looking he is! He is tall, blonde with blue eyes, has beautiful body and good sense of humor ...perfect! Everytime I had sex w/my boyfriend I would close my eyes and imagine it was him.
I finally couldn't resist and went out with him. We never had sex or anything, but I thought that we were having a relationship, but we never talked about the relashionship, so we were kinda dating, and not dating!
2007-03-04 21:27:40 · 5 answers · asked by All I want is to be LOVED! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We would make out in the fitting room or back room when the manager was not around. Those were such a happy moments for me. He would hold my hand and not let it go.
But recently he started ignoring me.He stopped calling me or texing. At work he would still flirt and tell he likes me, but never contacts me when were r out of work. When I ask him why he does it, we always claims he is not ignoring me, he is just too busy!
Things got really hard for me. One day I was calling him for whole day and he did not pick up, so I called the work cuz it was his shift, and he was really cold to me. After that call we ignore each other. It is such a misery when we work together, My God, I am so attracted to him, I think I would rather be dead that being ignored my him!
The worst part is that I dont even know what went wrong. We never ever had a single argument! And he never gives me a chance to talk to him now!
Please help me! What should I do? It is so hard to move on!Maybe I should qui
2007-03-04 21:28:04 · update #1
I broke up with my boyfriend for him!
2007-03-04 21:36:06 · update #2
NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER DATE A CO-WORKER!
Hopefully, you've learned your lesson - Don't do it again!
2007-03-04 21:32:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jolly1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A roll in the fitting room does not a relationship make!! Are you sure that he didn't just want a taste of your dessert??
It is a bad idea to date co-workers for several reasons. First, you are distracted on your job. Second, as you know now, it is very awkward to work with a person with which you had a failed relationship, or fling. Thirdly, you generally get irritated with each other quickly because you see way too much of each other.
Either find another job, or move on. Don't continue to call him, or join him in the fitting room. You are just making yourself look like a fool. If he wants to pursue the relationship, he will find a better time and place for it!! If not it is his loss.
2007-03-05 05:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did u expect a man to stick around a female that already has a man?? if u even slightly thought so, u where being naive.
He must of realized that he was wasting his time.
If u liked him so badly, u should have broken up with ur boyfriend first then moved on.
Now u could have hurt both relationships. Best is to learn from this experience &move on. Going after ur co-worker now will be like bumping ur head against a brick wall.
Y do u want to quit?? not able to handle ur consiquences now huh?
2007-03-05 05:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u told yourself u never talked about relationships. so guy had free sex and it doesn't mean he fell in love with u and wanted to marry u. he just got some sex now he got bored from sex , probably he is molesting someone else in fitting room right now. the only thing u can do - change job
2007-03-05 05:38:41 · answer #4 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did he find out that you have boyfriend??......if so i think that's the reason
2007-03-05 05:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by geez 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋